Any one else hate posts like this? Shouldn’t we teach men to give head better / close the orgasm gap

I have direct trauma from rape to where I can’t give bjs. Lowkey these posts make me feel pressure I don't think I, nor other women - deserve to feel.

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cy05kRfosKn/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==