Thoughts about bringing back Fine as Fuck Fridays?

Yay thank you!!

Only chubby guys for me. muscly men who are super fit with no soft/fat just repulses me on a visceral level and feels like cuddling a box of rocks.

this is what made fds so important for me. I have found that chubby dudes are usually even more often scrotes than men who are into fitness. For a ton of reasons I could write a book about it but won’t write a whole wall of text here.

😅 the “cuddling a box of rocks” part made me chuckle lmao. I’ve also never been crazy for gym bros. I remember being in love with my ex and describing him as my teddy bear. I realized somewhat big tall guys were my sweet spot lmao. Afterwards I’ve had a couple of big boys on my roster with varying degrees of success. The most pleasant courtship experience was with a pretty male who was big (not chubby, just with some heft) and 6’4. I agree that men who feel relegated bc they do not fit in with conventional tastes are the absolute worst. I learned this from talking to a lv chubby scrote with low self esteem who sought to punish me for his self hate. He literally couldn’t believe I’d step so far down the ladder for him. That experience soured me and I started to gravitate towards prettier men from that point. They tend to be nicer in my experience. I don’t think I have a very specific type though, I just gravitate towards men that make me feel good.

Right, I love teddy bear, but still manly, types. I just can't compromise on it and won't waste my time entertaining someone I'm anything less than excited at the idea of touching. And I fricken love cuddling so they gotta be cuddly.

I think that describes my experience too! Lots of them have low self-esteem and I can't deal with that. I don't like when I get the feeling that they think I settled for them and would rather have someone more "conventionally attractive" because I just don't.

I don't remember which handbook post it was but someone broke it down one time where if the guy finds you when he isn't the person he wants to be, he will resent you for being with him. I think they kinda explained it like if he doesn't have his finances together or whatever. But I read it also as the reason a lot of fat guys will resent me for wanting them is because they are not happy with themselves and see themselves as not good enough until they lose weight. So I have that extra layer of vetting to do if I am to find a partner who is actually happy with himself and doesn't look down on me for wanting some extra cushion.

Nobody seems to disrespect men who are into BBW's nearly as much as they do to women who are into the male version of that.

I think scrotes were mad about us drooling over hot guys and i also think the wgtow crowd didn't like other women drooling over our oppressors lol