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I keep trying to tell her he ain’t shit, but maybe she needs more advice. She doesn’t follow FDS even though I recommended it to her. But she has liked my posts on it and supports FDS, so I hope she can begin practicing it herself because I don’t want her to feel this hurt any more.
He’s cheated on her multiple times. Never gave her one orgasm… I just want sis to climb out of this self deprecating mindset and realize she’s so much better than this. Blocking and deleting + not lurking is so important to move on with our lives. Never check in on men who treated us like crap please and don’t fall for the narrative that he’s changed for someone else.
He's just love bombing his new victim and posting it to hurt the ex as well. Two birds with one stone. Not only has he not changed but he will get worse. I got to experience this when I was 16. Dude who battered me and robbed me of what pathetic little savings I had, took the new girl to Disney World and posted all about it. It was barely a month or two into their relationship. He did beat her, and her brothers beat his ass later. Idk if it actually means anything, but I totally side eye brand new relationship love bomb posting from anyone. It gives me narc vibes.
You can ask her to read the handbook.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. She dodged a bullet. BUT of course it still hurts. She has to push through, as hard as it might be in the beginning, but she'll get through it and soon realize that fate did her a favor by this relationship being over. I'm following an FDS aligned YouTuber called Asha Christina and she always says "What's for me will not miss me and if it misses me, it just wasn't meant for me". Especially not a cheating asshole of a boyfriend who couldn't even please her sexually.