I might get canceled for this but...you know when homphobes learn a woman is a lesbian and go "what a waste"? Well, I think that too, but for young women (of all sexualities) when I learn they have a kid. I'm not even lt 20s. I cannot imagine taking on the full emotional, mental and spiritual burden of having children, much less dealing with the physical effects of childbirth and breastfeeding. And yet I see women my same age and younger with 1, 2, even 3 kids! I work a job where I see a lot of people (actually, I think that's everyone LOL) and they all just make me feel bad looking at them. I think of the vacations they can't go on, items they can't buy, and opportunities they can't take advantage of. because all good mothers know children need stability. They can't take a higher paying job halfway across the country, go to college 2 hours away, etc.
And also since they're like 19, you just know for a fact that they're bds are trash. I'm sorry but in a first world country, where (due to feminist work) it's seen as unusual to get married and have kids so young, the kids are probably due to evil Republican meddling. Only scrotes who want to baby trap women have kids that young, or players who dgaf about the consequences of their actions. They're probably suffering from some scrote who doesn't pay CS and is living his best 21yo life at the club, while she's up at 2am changing diapers.
I keep reading/seeing these nightmare stories of what happens to these super youmg mothers, both tradwives and non, and they just fill me with dread over random stranger's lives. I know, I know. But I still feel sad that these women's lives essentially ended before they even began. It's not an accident that, for centuries, scrotes have been weaponizing their own children against their BM to hold power over her. I've also read stories of amazing young mothers who've accomplished all they've dreamed of and then some, but it's a lie to say that it wasn't 100% harder with child(ren) in tow who also have to be fed, clothed and cared for.
I know this post is kinda depressing and dark, but I just had to get this feeling off my chest. I just really feel for all the women out there who had kids before they discovered themselves.
Having children would probably infinitely more fulfilling for many women and less of a damper on their potential if they had the proverbial village to raise the child with, and no more than 2 of them. A single mother is not a woman with no man, it's a woman without the help of her sisters.