A Non-Comprehensive List of Controversial FDS Opinions (Updates in progress)

Abortion

We are staunchly pro-choice. We believe in a woman's right to choose for herself when and with whom to have a baby. The benefits of women having ownership over their own reproductive care have far reaching benefits to ourselves and society at large. That being said, pro-life discussion is permitted on this website if conducted respectfully and not used to shame other members.

Ghosting

We are staunchly Pro - Ghosting on this sub. Any comments guilt tripping women for dropping communication with men without explanation will be removed. You don’t owe men an explanation for shit. Don’t get beat up, cursed out, maimed, sexually assaulted, stalked or murdered out of a sense of obligation to assuage the male ego.Don’t give them the opportunity to wear down your resolve with lies, guilt trips, and crocodile tears. We don’t care if you’ve been dating for years. The most dangerous time for a woman is when she attempts to break up with a man.

Break out like a bandit in the night and don’t look back.

Kinks & Kink Shaming

We believe your sexuality is a reflection of your values, therefore we fully Kink Shame any one who pushes kinks that center around racism, degradation or abuse. FDSers do not support the sexual degradation of women under the guise of “consensual BDSM”.

Monogamy

We believe in monogamy, but don't push monogamy as an end goal for women unless it holds significant advantages for her. In fact, we encourage women to date multiple men until you have settled on a suitor who has proven himself worthy of your univided attention. It's high value male or bust.

Politics/Political Opinions

First and foremost, we are a strategic oriented sub. We do not push any particular political ideology. And since we don’t solely center ourselves in one ideology, we don’t completely align with any of the mainstream political ideas about women.

Our strategies are grounded in harsh realism about the current culture and dating landscape that are often at odds with established belief systems about the world. FDS focuses on risk vs reward, not wishful thinking, blissful ignorance, and blind hope.

So much of what women are taught to believe about ourselves is outright false or based on a utopic viewpoint of the world that often has no practical basis for application in our current society and is not likely to get the results you want. So if you build your worldview on one particular social theory to the teeth, at times you may find yourself at odds with FDS.

Please confine your discussions on politics to the subforum dedicated to politics.

Polyamory

Fuck that sis. Most men barely have the maturity or communication skills to meet the emotional needs of one woman, much less several. Demand a man's undivided attention or none at all.

Pornography

WE DO NOT support the commercial porn industry, as it is an institution that promotes and normalizes sexual aggression, incest, pedophilia, violence, racism, degradation, low sexual satisfaction, and objectification of women and girls, many of whom have been drugged, raped, misled, trafficked and otherwise coerced to appear on film.

Furthermore, there has not been a lot of evidence that porn use in relationships creates any significant benefits to women. Most porn is not catered to our sexual needs and increases the amount of abusive stimulus a man needs to gain an erection. This is not likely to enhance your sexual satisfaction as much as detract from it.

Sexual History

FDSers do not support being upfront about a woman’s sexual past/sexual history. There absolutely no upsides. No matter how many men you’ve fucked in the past, you should play it coy and never admit to double digits. Never admit to doing something sexually in the past that you would not do with your current man. We would point out that a guy even petty enough to ask in the first place, is a red flag on its own.

#rules