Has anyone been watching Virgin River? (spoilers)

I am just curious what the FDS takes on this show are, especially since the men in it appear like high value males. At first I thought Jack was a HVM as he calls out toxic behavior in men, builds Mel an entire cabin and is always helping her making her life easier. That is until I saw how he treated Charmane.

And Mel is grieving for her husband but in flashbacks he seems like such a dick, pressuring mel to get pregnant and have a baby then refusing to keep trying for a baby when it goes wrong? And IMO neither Mel or jack should not be dating they are clearly too traumatized.