“Men get raped too” is often a phrase said by incels who fail to remember yeah, mostly by other men

Literally its only used against women complaints about rape to make some idk stupid pointless point

there was some article about some animal species who got rid of all the aggro male ones, and then reproduced with the babies that were raised without being around the aggro male ones and it solved the aggression in that pack of animals. I wish I could remember what it was but it was really interesting!

I've read a similar study with rabbits once. They raised one group of baby rabbits in a harmonic group of relaxed and peaceful adult rabbits (females and neutered males, I think) and the other group of babies in a group with more anxious rabbits that hadn't known each other for long (so there were fights etc.) and the first group of babies turned out to be better socialised, less anxious even in new/stressful situations and more intelligent (!) as adults. It's not surprising. The behaviour we see and experience as "normal" when we are children will shape us for our whole life.

I've seen it myself with birds, now that I think of it. I had my birds (a very social, extremely peaceful and cooperative species) foster an abandoned chick of a species that is usually quite aggressive. The baby grew up to be so chill that it had to stay with my flock because other birds of his species would have bullied him to death because he never learned to fight back.

I think it would be difficult for a woman to do this to an adult man.

Usually when you hear of women being a sex offender it's usually she has a "relationship" with a teen/preteen. Obviously it's very wrong to do so, but it happens.

BUT men tend to say women can rape men because they always seem to know a guy that was straddled against his will.

Men don't always have to be aroused to get a boner though, sometimes it just happens. So I think that's why they say this situation is possible. Even if a woman did this, she wouldn't get pleasure from it. Men have no idea about female sexuality, because they think she'd actually get pleasure from that, she wouldn't. Also I'm pretty sure random boners come and go quickly. So how would that happen?

When I see the statistic of 1% of rapists/sex offenders are women, i think it's more of a teacher/student type thing. Or they work with men and have female victims.

Or maybe unwanted sexual touching? I think that's what makes up the 1%

Once again men hurt other men and they blame women.

Women can definitely be abusers, not just towards men but other women as well. I was SA by a woman a little older than me when I was around 18, but I was also SA by a lot of men throughout my life in way more horrible ways.

Men can get SA but it's not even comparable in terms of percentage. Women are not making men feel unsafe on the streets or anything like that.

Men who bring 'men get raped too' dont care about the men who do get raped. They just want to undermine their behaviors and put women at the same abuse level as them.

I agree some of my exes wanted me to have sex with them when they were asleep and shit. My ex said if he was passed out I’m supposed to suck his dick.

This hasn't been true since 2012. The US DOJ defines rape as:

In the UK

The sexual offence 'assault by penetration' is when someone penetrates another person's vagina or anus with an object or a part of the body that’s not a penis, without their consent.