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Well ladies there you have it! This is why its so important to maintain your own money and emotional independence. These scrotes find these things intimidating because these three screenshot examples are the three biggest deterants for abusers, narcissisists and men looking to use and exploit you. They know having all these three things, a good paying job and career success, emotional independence and a fit/healthy body and lifestyle and 'doing well in life's as one scrote so eloquently put it I makes you seem like you don't 'need' them. We should never put ourselves in a position of needing a man or anyone for that matter since that is just handing your power over to them. I know for a fact that once I cut off all my toxic family and past abusers that God blessed my life with all of these things and then some. Narcissists and other toxic abusers are blessing blockers and once we level up they're always lurking in the shadows seething with jealousy and envy watching us do well for ourselves without them. They also want to partake in our success while not contributing any value to our lives. They're just looking for a woman's coattail to ride off and will use and abuse us into the ground then use our energy, personality traits and success to attract their next victim/target. These men out here are insecure and jealous of women who are at their level or above and who demand equality and respect. They know they can no longer toy with us once we have all our sh*t together and no longer take BS off of anyone. We are the own CEO of our lives and should determine who gets hired and who gets fired.
I appreciate the honesty of this article pointing out the insecurities of pathetic man-babies. Men are confusing - they don’t want you to be a “gold digger” but you’re also not allowed to be independent and self sufficient. How are we meant to win?
As usual, women are expected to balance on the razor thin edge of men’s idiotic and illogical expectations. Don’t be a gold digger! You expect ME to pay!? Miss me
How depressing! But validating all the same as I posted something similar a few weeks back.
Imagine being turned off by someone who doesn’t ‘need’ you for what boils down to material things, JFK. Like, being depended upon is what some of these guys want from a girlfriend. Not character, integrity, playfulness or a bomb personality. Oh no, they want a financially weaker chick so they can feel superior. But I bet these types of blokes also veer into wanting to go Dutch on dates. We can’t win.
Oh wait, yes we can. We can laugh in the face of a man’s intimidation the second he lets slip he doesn’t
feel comfortable about our status and continue being amazing.
Traits non-abusers generally want: fun, nurturing, independent, sexy, playful, “a mental challenge,” & “has perfect imperfections.” It sounds different when the goal is to find a real life partner, not someone low-resourced to abuse. Fuck these Preddit losers.
All the pickme’s think that men are your life raft but it’s yourself and your career than you are neglecting for a man. Your career should even come before everything because when you lose it your career keeps your head above the water. I would never give up my education and career because those are doors that will never close in your face.
What stood out to me is that being a highly paid professional is "the only thing he has going for him". Dude, you should be embarrassed instead of intimidated. Every woman I know is working on her appearance, her career, and 18 other self improvement goals while being some kind of Martha Stewart-Mother Theresa hybrid with model looks, and these guys are lucky if they have a "highly paid" job. Please!
If a gender swapped version of this article was made, it would be full of tips to avoid getting into a true crime podcast
It's true. I briefly dated a complete shitball who turned all of the cool things about me into positive things about HIM.
"Oh wow, you accomplished X?! That means that I must be talented and special too because you're dating me!!" No bitch.
He did this with a lot of people and would name- or profession-drop in order to virtue signal about himself. But when I asked for details about these very interesting-sounding people, he had no details, only very surface-level information. He was not INTERESTED in them. He was only using their status/prestige to make himself look better. (Because he himself was really boring, hollow, and led a very empty life, inside and out.) Classic con artist technique.
One of the easiest ways to tell if a man is a shitball is when he steals your thunder, refuses to let you claim the spotlight you've worked hard for, and uses every person and thing in existence as a tool to brag about himself. In conversation, he won't ask you questions or actually engage with you. He'll talk only about himself (classic) or focus on THE WAY HIS WORDS MAKE HIM LOOK and be SELF-CONSCIOUS and FOCUS ON HIMSELF because HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.. Test it out by mentioning some small achievement like getting a nice performance review or compliment at work, or an award you won in high school. Watch as he makes it all about him.
Can you share the link please?
great post!
next stop: fit, rich, stone cold fox 😎👑
is it really possible to have one without the others? (self-created wealth, not because dad owns an emerald mine in africa) you have to have a calm, strong mind and work ethic to train and earn like a beast.
keep leveling up, Queens.