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Having some midnight thoughts. I normally question why men hate women so much. What is it about women, is it our biology, why do they try so hard to control and abuse us? Why do they crave degrading and abusive pornography that depicts us as dumb slaves who love pain?
The more I look around, the more I notice how unhappy most men are. Even the ones who seem happy, they look tense and drawn out around the eyes. When they laugh with their friends it sounds like a bark. They have a sense of discomfort about them. You can also find endless threads by men who feel like losers, failures, like they're not good enough compared to the other mythical alpha men around them who they believe are the ones really living the good life.
I have known several men in my life so far who break down in shame about this type of thing, and there's always another man they compare themselves to who has it better and who they wish they were.
Note how women don't even factor in to these feelings. These men really fear being looked down on by other men and women are just external to that. We have been used as bargaining chips, antidotes, and punching bags for thousands of years, because of the anguish men feel, internally, about the situation they put themselves in. We are the fall guys.
Submission is slavery yet men claim that it’s the only way to make a marriage work and let him lead but as the great Asada Shakur said “ Nobody in this world/history has ever gained their freedom by appealing to the moral sense of their oppressor”
But the pickme‘s refuse to admit that men are their oppressors and with that men will continue to use and abuse women like Pawns.
Unless women change it will always be this way. I’d say female segregation is the solution. They can have one half of the Earth and we’ll have the other.
I think they resent how easily happy we are. I remember the day before my NVM ex dumped me he commented on how amusing it was that I get so excited over stuff like spring coming or anything cat-themed. I assumed he was just making a cute observation but then the next day he tells me he's been a secret alcoholic and dumps me. I was devastated at the time (it was my first breakup) but my life has improved considerably (new relationship, new friends, amazing new job, glorious FDS etc.). Meanwhile he's been completely isolated for the past 2 years, still drinks, shaved his head (???) and I found out recently from a mutual friend that he's been reposting pics of me on his social media (which is incredibly disturbing but I don't want to go near that or unblock so I'm just ignoring it).
In retrospect, I think that comment actually came from a place of resentment. It's why they get so mad at the "small" or "superficial" things that seem to bring women joy (e.g. interior decor, sweet stuff and drinks that don't taste like shit, spa days etc.). They're jealous that happiness comes so easily to us (at least in the absence of men).