Got moaned at for saying a wife making a chore list (and calling it sidequests 😳) for her ADHD husband is an example of the gendered mental load
It is though, right?
Also is it just me who finds calling it sidequests and making it all cutesy cringeworthy and more like something you'd make for your young son than a grown man? And even then you should probably teach them to learn to do chores and organise themselves
I think my ex partner had ADHD and I was pretty much like his PA. He was in his mid to late 30s when we were together 😬 I'm also autistic
Posting here because I was hoping the more "awakened" ladies here wouldn't criticise me for critiquing something like this, unlike most of the other FB groups I've posted it in. It can't surely be just me?