Hi. This person that I consider my friend has said some questionable things the last few days. First she called my breast saggy and then last night she said that I looked pregnant. when I asked her why she made the comment she said that she was just joking. I told her I didn’t appreciate that and she apologized, but still reaffirm that she was just joking. We are due to attend a ceremony together and we have a plan trip to Budapest Friday. How do I proceed? I don’t really want to be her friend anymore.
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Get a refund or switch your booking to go alone or with folks who don't actively bully you.
Do not tolerate anyone belittling you or your body. You have every right to cancel the trip and cut this woman out of your life. She is not a friend.
Sounds like a female narc/sociopath and best case a bully. I'd block ber on everything she's shit testing to see if you'll tolerate disrespect and abuse.
Can’t stand when someone says some hatin ass shit to me in a joking way. Instant block and delete idgaf.
Cut her off yesterday. She is not your friend. Hope you enjoy your solo trip to Budapest and meet some better ppl along the way😇
Thats not a friend thats a whole ass hater
I had a close friend who would say I looked pregnant too, and that I needed to get plastic surgery to change my face. You should cut her off immediately. I made the mistake of giving her multiple chances, and the things she said still fuck with my self-esteem to this day.
Hey, definitely make it a solo trip! Strangers are more likely to be on their best behaviour, so you’re better off meeting random people than this woman, who will definitely throw you under the bus and make you look bad if you meet others on the trip.
I find people in Budapest to be a little unfriendly on average though, but if you find some of the social events (like a group visiting the thermal baths) then you could be in luck. 🙂
Life is too precious to waste it on such people. I'd tell her she's awful and cut her out.