As my title stated, I'm what holds my small family together (mom, younger sister, and dog). I don’t even know where to start with unfurling myself from the mess that is my family. My mother has no money saved for retirement (spent it on a house that she can barely afford the mortgage). Debts up to 20K and still growing.She has healthy issues that she refuses to take care of herself (diabetes, heart, edema, untreated mentally trauma). She reallyshould be on disability but doesnt qualify due to my dad's military benefits.She has her scrote bf live with use and he does nothing but order her around like a slave.
My sister is in college (20) She has depression and refuses to take her medication for it or see her doctor. So it has gotten to the point bad she doesn't go to school, work for days. But she spent all day with her phone glued to her while she talks to her scrote boyfriend (long distance)who she claims lives her and sends her money( its the other way around) My sister is just so unhelpful with bills and when she gets money she spends it on herself.
Meanwhile I'm working two-three jobs and I can't scrape up a penny to get my dreams off the floor(fix up my grandma's house, opening my own tutoring business, and traveling).I was a teacher but had to leave due to salary. I'm exhausted and just frustrated at how they expected me to do everything.All the years I have wasted and it's like they gave up on life. I want to know something other than struggle. I'm this close to sell everything and just getting on a plane somewhere far away. And I hate myself for it.
You got this!