I know FDS has a pretty hard "don't have male friends stance" and fwiw I agree with it for the most part, but I'm so glad that I have a loophole in the form of my male cousins.
In a world where most men kind of suck, and Indian men are currently gaining a global reputation for being viciously sexist and sadistic assholes, my cousins serve as living testaments to the fact that there are decent fellas among them. They treat me like a princess whenever I go to India and I know any gal they choose to make their wife will be lucky as hell to have them, too!
So yeah this post was basically just an excuse to talk about how much I love my guy cousins. I'm so lucky to have them in my life ❤️
It's good to hear that they treat you well as your cousin - but we don't know if that means the same thing as being a good husband.
I'd love to go through your cousins internet histories to see exactly what kind of men they are 💯
Indian men and western men aren't all that different.
There are more rapes in India, because there are more men, but DV and rapes per capitalist is about the same, contrary to Western supremacist belief.