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So, I've already made a post about it here, but I'd like to share an update and ask for your opinions/advice again.
So today, me and my friend finally had a discussion about me not being comfortable when she invites other people to our outings, esp. men, without telling me in advance. We kind of made up and agreed to be more clear about how many people will participate in our outings in the future.
Anyway, we are planning another outing next weekend and I suggested inviting my friend B. My 'original' friend - let's call her A, doesn't really get along with B. When I asked her what exactly she doesn't like about A, she told me she's afraid that B will flirt with her male friends. Huh? Does anyone else find it weird? I mean, why would you even care if anyone's flirting with your male friends, unless, you want their attention to yourself? 🤔 She also told me that she was 'scared' to tell me about next week's outing originally because she knew I wouldn't like her bringing her other friends along. This makes me wonder - if you knew all along it makes me uncomfortable then why would you do it in the first place?? 🤔 I'll see how the next outing goes and how we'll all get along, but I already have a bad feeling about this. What are your thoughts? Have you ever been in a similar situation where a friend kept bringing their other friends to your outings uninvited? Has someone ever told you they were 'scared' to tell you something because of how you'd react??
To answer your question, no. My friends have never made me feel uncomfortable once I voiced my concerns. This is partly because of my own personality.
Deep down, I think you’ve already made your decision. I understand that it can be hard to let go being that it’s hard to find friends. The longer you’re with her, the more you’re going to resent her every actions. However, take this time to decompress and when you’re much more certain of this friendship, make your decision.