So I'm having this situation for the first time, honestly I've never really dealt with it before and I find it so weird. Basically there's this woman who actively dislikes me which is fine, but what's weird is that she finds passive aggressive ways to let me know.
We barely know each other, there isn't any real reason for her to dislike me, it's not like we've had conflict. Maybe my personality just rubs her the wrong way or whatever. But how do I deal with her feeling the need to let me know? Do I ignore/avoid her? Do I keep being nice or "the bigger person" so it doesn't get worse? Can you share any times this has happened to you? I just find it socially bizarre.
Please document everything. Adult bullying especially at work is real and it can cause PTSD if it gets worse. Obviously don’t go to your super if you can avoid it, but if you start to lose sleep, etc it’s time to shut it down. I’ve been bullied at work. Ignoring them makes it worse. Standing up for yourself makes it worse. They want to hurt you, and they’re going to until it gets boring for them or they get fired. Bullies are scum. I’m
Sorry :(