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I think she makes some very interesting and FDS-aligned points, but at the same time she seems to blame women for male behaviour (news flash) and use air quotes to talk about HVM...........
Anyway, I particularly disagree with a specific thing she said about "pussy power". She says women have great power in the dating dynamics because men's heads revolve around sex, so if we withdraw sex from them (meaning waiting for sex) we have the control over this dynamic. I know that waiting to have sex and avoiding hook up culture is necessary to find a HVM, but I don't think it means we've got the power. We have desires, it is difficult to be with someone and not have sex when both parties want it. However we must ignore this desire because we know that men lose respect for us as soon as we have sex with them. So no, we don't have "pussy power" because we withdraw from our own desires in order to avoid being treated like shit by men. I agree that we should wait for sex. I just don't see it as women being in control.
She defends going 50/50 if that's what works for your relationship (which takes me to the conclusion that she thinks men paying for everything is also okay if it works for your relationship). She criticizes women who expect young men to be providers because that's something very unlikely since young people usually aren't yet settled in their career.
One of the things I agree with is mindless scrolling and the feeling that there's always someone better. So why settle for this person I kinda like if I can potentially find someone better in a swipe? And there's also the part about not being able to be youself because there are so many rules to keep a guy, attract the right man, etc. That made me think aboout FDS. We have many rules with the objective to keep us safe from and help us find true love focusing on our benefit, but I've got to say it feels quite suffocating at times (although we know this is not FDS's fault...)
There is a lot to unpack in this video and I would like to know your thoughts about it 😶
Women shouldn't be blamed for dusties but If you know from what mold he comes from such as he cheated on his previous partner, he went to jail, he was a juvie, he has a drinking problem ect.
then you are in the wrong for choosing that. You can't choose trash and then complain when trash starts to stink. Ask yourself this do you want your daughter to date a man like that? Do if you could be a child again do you want that man to be your father?
You wouldn't drink a bottle of bleach disguised as a soda can if you know bleach is in there, you wouldn't step on glass if you know there are glass shards in front of you so why be so blind towards men? You need to be vigilant and learn from your mistakes instead of doing it again.
Anyone who defends 50/50 is an idiot because 50/50 never benefits women. Name one man who does 50/50 in the child rearing and household.. So far I haven't met them. If men aren't established in their careers yet then they shouldn't date or have babies.
When you look at animals in the wild do the bucks who are unable to defeat the stronger buck who is more genetically blessed gets a free pass to mate with the female? No.
You're smarter than an animal, don't settle for men who aren't the best of the best. Or are unable to defend and provide. Their incompetence is not your problem so don't settle for it.