Autistic FDS sisters: what do you think?

It so often comes back to men being jealous of women because women get assaulted and raped, while men don’t get attention from women. Men universally rank themselves as more deserving of pity than women are because they’re incels instead of rape victims.

OP I completely agree with you that autistic women receive a huge amount of negative social judgment, you're just never going to make a self-pitying misogynistic man see the light.

He’s just making shit up but at the same time I’m sure he believes it. These types of men fascinate me from a psychological standpoint. I think they basically craft their own world of make-believe in order to cope. It’s what happens when someone spends 24/7 in their own head.

He is literally saying "men target mentally ill women for sex/abuse, and i want sex, therefore you have a better quality of life" 🙄

Gee, I wonder why self diagnosed autistic men are red flags. Its almost like rapey abusive narcissists love the autistic male label. It's almost like autism is a get-out-of-jail-free card for men.

The lack of self awareness is funny though. He's like "You're a target for crimes, *I* sometimes get judged so *I* have it worse."

Autistic men ARE mostly creepy and sometimes an actual threat though.

Your first mistake was engaging with this clown after he issued that egregious and incorrect assortment of assumptions. Blocking him after that statement is the only correct response here.

You have more life to live than this.

I am autistic and ADHD and I have tried to date autistic guys but it's difficult as well. They aren't very different from other men, they just have autistic traits. Also autism has been studied much more on men.

I was dating one for 8 months and he would get mad cause I had body acne and I would not dress sexily on the dates. He only wanted me for his entertainment. One time he was pushing me in public and someone called the police. Also a bit before we broke up for good he threatened to punch me. He had a loving family who tried to give him everything they could but he thought they were annoying and never opened up to them even though they'd encourage him to talk about anything that concerns him.

the men who specifically prefer autistic women are looking for a woman who doesn't know how to protect herself from manipulation, or one who he can easily gaslight.

I had many such experience as an autistic woman, including a boy I was making out with in college telling me “I hope you won’t be mad at me, but I want you.”  I said “Oh, uh… I’m not mad” “It’s okay?” “Uh, yeah I guess.”  And he said “Okay!”, and immediately pulled my pants down and began fingering me.  Instead of yelling “what the fuck—I didn't give you permission for you to do that”, I just thought “oh… I guess ‘I want you’ is code for ‘let’s have sex’. I didn’t know that.”  guys would also approach me and say disgusting things that they wouldn’t say to other girls, or touch me without my permission, or ask me to sit on their laps.  And because I was so desperate for social acceptance, I’d go along with it.  This made the girls hate me too, because I was “a slut”, and “not even a hot one”.  I was a people-pleaser with the few female friends I had too, which led to being used for rides, while still being the absolute lowest status member of the group, that they would all pick on to make themselves feel better about being picked on by others.  This made me even more vulnerable to any boy who showed me the smallest bit of kindness.

Figuring out how to exist socially (especially as a sheltered person who was not allowed to spend time with friends as a child) was a long and traumatic period of trial and error, and observing which behaviors boys wouldn’t dare displaying in front of other girls, and realizing that these were the behaviors I shouldn’t accept, either.  It was hard, because I wasn’t comfortable with a lot of behavior that other girls DID accept, so I just figured that I was the weird one, and I’d better pretend that all disrespect was okay, since I didn’t know how to distinguish between “acceptable“ disrespect and “unacceptable” disrespect.

I eventually figured out what I am comfortable with, and stopped allowing boys/men to treat me like that, and suddenly I wasn’t so popular with them anymore.

So yeah, scrotes like to victimize neurodivergent women, but I wouldn't exactly call that a win for us.

Narcissism and misogyny are male original sin.

Weaponized autism

Imagine the demographic that is MORE likely to get diagx and support for autism, being more oppressed??? Can't make this shit up lmaoooo. 🤣

NOTE: The first screenshot and the last screenshot are the wrong way around. Not sure how that happened lol

Autistic people and cluster b people are world's apart. The diagnosis list is very very very different. Their entire character and attitude is different. Read upon it. Go hang out with actual autistics people and you will see the difference.

Beware of cluster b men when you don't know them and they trick you into thinking their cluster b personality is a form of autism.