your cousin, really?

Gross and creepy. He was definitely trying to make you feel jealous/insecure and maybe even trying to feel you out to see if you would be open to a threesome. I bet you a million dollars he's a pornsick coomer who watches incest porn. Block, delete, and seriously reconsider your friendships. They sound like pickmes of the worst kind.

Hard pass. Block and delete. Want to hear about how big your 13 year old daughter's breasts are getting when you marry this dude and give him kids? If he's scoping out family members in a sexual way, and can't even hide it past the first date, he IS that creepy, rapist uncle, cousin, brother, or father ALREADY.

Block and delete! You want to dodge all of that heavy artillery!

Eeeweww what a incestous creep! Also what is wrong with your friends?? How can they think thats okay and gaslight you

Pornsick scrote. 🤮🤢

I'm flabbergasted that you'd share the above story with your friend and you'd be told you are "overthinking." This is why women never trust their instincts. We are constantly informed of how hysterical, sensitive, and crazy we are. Block, delete, run. Your intuition is right. Trust your gut always. This is disturbing behavior.

It doesn’t matter if he was a bit drunk. He shouldn’t have that thought about his COUSIN!

also sounds like he’s setting you up to triangulate you with his “attractive friend”

the friend that has you thinking that you’re over reacting, is she a pick me type? because anything a pick me/cool girl tells you, its probably best to do the opposite

We show our true colours when we’re drunk. After a few drinks I lose my inhibitions, I am less tactful in my feminist beliefs and more likely to tell my friends I love them. I might regret how I phrase something but I don’t become a different person. I actually like to see people get drunk as I find it helpful. All of my friends are happy and silly and tell me how utterly wonderful I am after a few drinks. Two friends have ended relationships after my parties because the person they brought showed some pretty dark and nasty traits.

This is sketchy behavior even in cultures where cousin marriage is encouraged. Block and wash your hands of the experience.

There is nothing good that can come from his comments. He’s either a creep or manipulator. Not good either way. NEXT!

You're not overthinking it. There's no reason for him to talk about his cousin like that.

This guy has fried his brain on incest porn and was trying to rope you into his weird fantasies. Be glad he showed his cards so early so you can get rid of him.

You're not overthinking this, your friend is either delusional or still too young and naive to be dating.

There's no reason to have sexual thoughts about a relative, let alone voice them to someone else. You know how often I've had sexual thoughts about a family member while drunk? Absolutely never.

Block and delete this creepy incest porn sick scrote and while you are at it, block and delete your friends. Such pick me behavior! He is so gross, Yuck.

Drunk or not, this guy is a creep. Run far far away from him.

Also, "a drunk man's actions/words, are a sober man's thoughts". What people say or do while drunk is what they don't have the guts to do while sober but drunk or not, a guy who can sexualise his own cousin is a perverse freak.

Triangulation

You dodged a bullet Now block and delete your friend

Even if I'm really drunk, you wouldn't be able to waterboard my embarassing secrets out of me, because I can control myself. This scrote thinks his weirdo behavior is normal, because "stepsis" porn melted his brain. He's a coomer and your friend is a pickme.

Ew. Block material.

Remember: "Drunk says what sober thinks"