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I have noticed among my age group (26) that a lot of m*n my age seem to be quite directionless, unemployed, don’t have a lot
of goals etc. meanwhile women my age are typically highly educated and have good jobs. Why do you think this is and how can I meet a HVM when they seem to be like 10% of the male population?
This is true. I have found that there are a lot of high-achieving men in healthcare. The problem is a lot of them are either married or they get around.
I don't even know why I responded to your post. I've got nothing. Maybe someone else can chime in.
Good luck, Sis.
Have absolutely noticed this. Recently got the line “I don’t want to work and I’m not struggling I just need a little help.” This from a 30 year old essentially squatting in his apartment since the rent hadn’t been paid in months when his sister and her bf moved out. He was turning his nose up at a job because he had made $2 more an hour at one point in the past. He has zero dollars to his name and goes on live streams of prayer sessions on YouTube dropping his cashapp and saying he’s hungry.
Because women have to work 10x as hard as men for 1/10th the recognition, and all women know this. NO woman on Earth is allowed to coast. Unpaid female labor on the global level is worth $10 trillion a year. We literally make the world run.
We're not even allowed to have justifiable nervous breakdowns from the abuse men commit against us - let alone live in a pigsty or have bad hygiene or fuck up on the job.
Men know they don't have to work hard because they notoriously fail up in life, so now they've taken it to the opposite extreme and are lazy as fuck. Why work hard when you know the world will cater to you anyway?
https://youtube.com/shorts/ePaNCIg2JIk?feature=share re men and leadership
As someone who is also a young adult, I think there are multiple reasons for these perpetual man-babies. One is a lack of discipline. We removed corporal punishment from the list of acceptable discipline and put sticker charts in its place. I don't support spanking, but boys need actual consequences because they usually don't care if they disappoint others. Another reason is no fathers/crappy fathers in the home. I also blame the Internet for providing echo chambers for scrotey ideas. And, please don't take this the wrong way, but I blame mainstream feminism too. We've eradicated gender roles to the point where we ignore the real differences between men and women. Men no longer feel pressured to provide or do anything useful.