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Y'all remember Texas Lawyer Guy? I had a suspicion that he was haunting my FB page, esp since I'm on the Camino he tried to talk me out of (and negged my health, such a scrote move and such projection). Sure enough, yesterday, a comment out of the blue which I immediately deleted without reading. I felt immediate horror, disgust, contempt. The audacity! I do not give a damn what he thinks of anything I do. I truly now see the wisdom in keeping men blocked permanently.
Today I forced myself to go back on FB and re-block him (he's just so unattractive on so many levels) and no surprise, I got a message saying he has OTHER profiles. Because of course he does, esp if he is the low-level narc I suspect he is. FB said it would limit most contact but still, just yuck.
Such a lesson in giving a burner phone number and no access to any real social media profile until at least several months to a year of dating and vetting hard! I have so learned a lesson here. That initial charm made me let down my guard but not again. It was the 10% snippy and ignorant comments that I now see were his narc mask slipping.
Stuff like this is what frustrates me about men. They’ll treat you poorly while you’re together and have poor planning for dates, yet will happily go into detective mode once it’s over. Don’t worry about his other profiles. You might have to block them on occasion though.
“The 10% snippy and ignorant comments that I now see were his narc mask slipping” - Exactly! When I reflect on the early dating behavior of last narc I dated, these comments were the giveaway 🚩. Letting them talk early without correction, while really paying attention to what he hates is extremely revealing of deep misogyny etc.
How does Texas Lawyer Guy have so much time in his hands lol