Women who were financially dependent on a man, were you ever treated as a burden?

I haven't ever been strictly financially dependent on a man, since I earn enough to take care of my basic necessities. But even then I have been treated like a burden when I made it known that he wasn't spending enough on me. Basic necessities aren't all that I want, and it is part of his role if he wants to get to date me to provide me with those other requirements. The minute a scrote starts showing signs of stinginess, it's bye-bye.