This is the way. The only way men will be forced to improve their behaviour is if they’re not granted access to women’s bodies. Unfortunately I don’t see it happening as there are too many pick me’s and shills for the patriarchy who reinforce male entitlement to sex with women.
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I wish this would do more, but with any kind of porn they could ever want at their fingertips, I don't know if women refusing to sleep with these losers will actually motivate them to change. Porn has really destroyed men's desire to get out and court women in reality. They have OF for the gf experience and many go on there to find coworkers, school crushes/hometown crushes and start parasocial relationships with them. They could care less about actually dating when they can pay a meager subscription for women they "know" who would never give them the time of day otherwise. I haven't had an ex who didn't do this kind of thing.
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Men ruined themselves (porn addiction, instant gratification from video games, anime, sexualization of online spaces, etc.)
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Jan 09, 2023
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And that's men's fault, not the fault of women taking control of their bodies. Men pushing women towards casual sex are at fault here. The pill can be used as an excuse. but not the cause. Men have always wanted and pressured women into casual sex, without or without the pill. The pill just made it so that women being pressured would have much less of a chance of suffering the added burden of carrying a useless scrote's baby after the fact.
It is 100% men's fault, not women's. The point is that the pill was wonderful for women, but of course men fucked up a nice thing. That's kinda the point of the book.
The red pill movement has men hating women more than ever. I see it even when a man holds a door open for me- he does so with such a look of disgust and anger, as if I'm making him do . It's scary out there- not just dating, but being around to them.
I took have experienced this. The first time it happened, the guy didn't just have a pissy look on his face, he looked like he wanted to murder me! Yuk. 😯🙄🤮💯
"Is this a bad thing? To a point, yes. Many women will mourn the lives they looked forward to that never came. So will a lot of men who end up perma-single because their Ms. Right gave up before they met them."My sentiments exactly. My dream was always to get married and have a couple kids. I never admitted this to anyone IRL, but every guy who has used me outside of an actual relationship were already in LTR/marriages. They didn't admit this to me of course and I found out through 3rd party sources. I carried a lot of resentment against myself because I hate cheating, yet I partook in it. Maybe unintentionally, but still. It's traumatic to be coerced into breaking your own morals. My ex also manipulated me in a similar fashion. I felt a lot of guilt after for a while. I felt like a horrible perso for hurting other women when I didn't mean to. I also felt damaged by the way these guys used me. I do my best to coexist with men but I don't put much effort anymore. I have so much pain.
I dealt with one of these assholes in my 20s. Turned out he was much older than he said he was, then he cheated on me and dumped me that night over email. I later found out he was engaged the whole time. It fucked me up for years.
Good news, though! I started sharing my story and (with my permission) word spread through our network. Even though it's been ten years, everybody is furious with him. His boss fired him. His pickme wife tried covering for him saying it was okay because they were in an oPeN rElAtIoNsHiP at the time. Well, I didn't know and didn't consent to that so, actually, no, it's not okay.
People are actually using the word "rape" and calling him a rapist. Apparently he's having a meltdown about it, but I blocked his number years ago so he can't say two words about it to me and IDGAF, he can die mad.
“Most women don’t talk about their decision to avoid men altogether. They just do it. A switch clicks in their mind, and from that day on, they plan a life around being single.”Fantastic article, thank you for posting!I’d be so happy if my daughter decides to someday plan her life around being single. I’m pretty convinced Gen Z feminist TikTok is right on the money about being intentionally post-men. And celebrating that! 🙌
You know, in the grand scheme of things... Isn't this what the scrotes wanted?
I'm being serious. I think I wrote a thread about this on here before, but this situation is something that had to have happened eventually. When no fault divorce became legal in the states back sometime in the 60s, it made way for women to feel excited at the possibility that now, they can be with men that they can actually stand to be around, whom they are attracted to both inside and out, and have a shot at true love rather than being forced to stay in a legally-binded marriages with a man who hates her but can stand her enough for her domestic and reproductive services.
But instead, slowly, little by little before it all came crashing down quickly all at once, men took it as an opportunity to systematically punish us all for wanting to push for female liberation and empowerment. They started the free love movement, which left behind many broken hearted women who became single mothers. Marriages that started around the 70s to 90s, half of them ended in divorce, usually due to DV or infidelity on the men's part. They started the hookup culture back in the 2000s and 2010s, now that the internet became sophisticated enough to let men have their pick of the puppy litter and outright refuse commitment with women. What's the point, these men figure, if she's just going to divorce them? While some couples dated around this time, men acted like being with women was like being imprisoned against their will.
Getting married? Insert ball and chain jokes here. A man feels like a failure for being a "beta cuck who settled down, had kids, and has to pay after everything instead of being an alpha male who can fuck all day everyday with a bunch of different women". We now even have today's group of young men who refuse to pay on dates or even DATE, period. They just want to link up and that's it.
So, why are they crying about this now? They hate women who want to be courted, who want to date them, who want relationships, who want marriage and a baby carriage. These men talked about wanting to soon replace women with sex robots to get with instead. Why are men crying about this now after all this time that they pretended that being with us made them want to die?
I'm always told "don't block your options like this, you'll miss.out on something beautiful" by scrotes 🎻Bruh, stfu and mind your own business. I don't have the patience to justify anything for you.
I quit in 2020, notwithstanding a brief stint on OLD (edit: OLD attempt was post-vaccination) during which no actual dates ever materialized (TONS of matches though) because men are huge lazy pieces of shit who can't have a normal conversation and organize ONE normal, safe date I'd be happy to go on
I've been asking for a relationship strike for ages! I must be the only woman doing it 😂 dating sites provide zero protection and dating is far from fun so I've literally nothing to lose 🤣
I love how the men in the comments are proving the author's point by pitching a fit and mansplaining how women are wrong and overreacting. Men are willfully in denial about how horrible they are as a class.
I'm probably not a HVW yet. But I genuinely believe I'm wife material. I am a good person, I have interesting hobbies, I support myself, and I'm gorgeous. Tell me why so many men on the internet claim to want women like that, but when we go on dates with them, it's like they lied to get a free sex doll? None of them actually want wives. None of them want girlfriends. Men say that because it's uncouth to think women don't deserve autonomy.
That's why this article resonates with me. I've always wanted the white picket fence, children; I looked up my perfect wedding dress as a kid. But I am so close to finding a new dream, because I was the one putting the emotions, the care, the schedules in all of my relationships. Do you know how bad it is when my fucking MOM told me not to get married? I personally don't want children without a husband, so I suppose it's time to focus on other things on the bucket list.
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>A switch clicks in their mind, and from that day on, they plan a life around being single.
so i haven't been the only one to do this hahaha
i've been here thinking "woah! i'm awesome! i flipped a switch in my brain and now i'm free!"
it's actually a very long process, kinda like a biuld up for something. then it finally happens: the insight that "flips the switch". feels like a fraction of a second.
>If a woman asks for a man to pay for a dinner, he might wax poetic about how she was “hustling him for money.” (Okay, so I guess y’all just want us to put out, shut up, and leave? Nothing for us? That sounds pretty unappealing.) Women risk getting abused, sexually assaulted, raped, or even killed by partners. If this happens, the woman will be blamed for “choosing the wrong guy.”
this is too real. if i ever go back to dating, i think i wouldn't care if they paid or not because i'd vet them for things i consider more important, since i don't want a provider (i don't want to get married/live under the same roof, and i provide for myself) and i don't want to take the risk of a violent man child who thinks i'm a gold digger. i think paying for dates is a sign of appreciation, something kind a man can do to show me he likes me. but even that is not enough when we take into account all the risks we take just to go see them. and then when i think a little bit more about that, i go back to the insight of being happier and safer as a solo woman. i can pay for my food, men have nothing to offer in terms of affection, men are dangerous, and as i already said: the risks are too high for the price of a date. be it a coffee date or a dinner at a five star restaurant. better not take the risk at all.
>women are totally within their right to choose to stay single out of fears for their own safety and mental health.
I've been asking for a relationship strike for ages! I must be the only woman doing it 😂 dating sites provide zero protection and dating is far from fun so I've literally nothing to lose 🤣 I've other options to living a lifelong unhappy existence with a rubbish 'man'.
When I was dating I'd have a full profile and put effort into asking compatibility questions so not to waste my time energy going to 'nowhere dates' and they'd still put zero effort. Zero compatibility questions asked to me, zero info on their profile, literally voice messages coz men are too lazy to type or asking for a date in first opening line (psycho!!) and then loads of emotional and psychological abuse or my full profile was called fake when their entitled assez got rejected, which only shows me I dodged a physically abusive whiimp also. Really nothing I'm missing and my mental health is more positive when I don't interact with any man in life.
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>Really nothing I'm missing and my mental health is more positive when I don't interact with any man in life.
amen! i'm soooo much healthier and happier men-free. men are a hazard to our well-being.
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They should stop sleeping with them too. End casual sex and make these men act like decent human beings for once.
Men ruined themselves (porn addiction, instant gratification from video games, anime, sexualization of online spaces, etc.)
The red pill movement has men hating women more than ever. I see it even when a man holds a door open for me- he does so with such a look of disgust and anger, as if I'm making him do . It's scary out there- not just dating, but being around to them.
Delighted to see women waking up to men's shitty behaviour. It's not us, it's them. Let them rot
"Is this a bad thing? To a point, yes. Many women will mourn the lives they looked forward to that never came. So will a lot of men who end up perma-single because their Ms. Right gave up before they met them." My sentiments exactly. My dream was always to get married and have a couple kids. I never admitted this to anyone IRL, but every guy who has used me outside of an actual relationship were already in LTR/marriages. They didn't admit this to me of course and I found out through 3rd party sources. I carried a lot of resentment against myself because I hate cheating, yet I partook in it. Maybe unintentionally, but still. It's traumatic to be coerced into breaking your own morals. My ex also manipulated me in a similar fashion. I felt a lot of guilt after for a while. I felt like a horrible perso for hurting other women when I didn't mean to. I also felt damaged by the way these guys used me. I do my best to coexist with men but I don't put much effort anymore. I have so much pain.
“Most women don’t talk about their decision to avoid men altogether. They just do it. A switch clicks in their mind, and from that day on, they plan a life around being single.” Fantastic article, thank you for posting! I’d be so happy if my daughter decides to someday plan her life around being single. I’m pretty convinced Gen Z feminist TikTok is right on the money about being intentionally post-men. And celebrating that! 🙌
You know, in the grand scheme of things... Isn't this what the scrotes wanted?
I'm being serious. I think I wrote a thread about this on here before, but this situation is something that had to have happened eventually. When no fault divorce became legal in the states back sometime in the 60s, it made way for women to feel excited at the possibility that now, they can be with men that they can actually stand to be around, whom they are attracted to both inside and out, and have a shot at true love rather than being forced to stay in a legally-binded marriages with a man who hates her but can stand her enough for her domestic and reproductive services.
But instead, slowly, little by little before it all came crashing down quickly all at once, men took it as an opportunity to systematically punish us all for wanting to push for female liberation and empowerment. They started the free love movement, which left behind many broken hearted women who became single mothers. Marriages that started around the 70s to 90s, half of them ended in divorce, usually due to DV or infidelity on the men's part. They started the hookup culture back in the 2000s and 2010s, now that the internet became sophisticated enough to let men have their pick of the puppy litter and outright refuse commitment with women. What's the point, these men figure, if she's just going to divorce them? While some couples dated around this time, men acted like being with women was like being imprisoned against their will.
Getting married? Insert ball and chain jokes here. A man feels like a failure for being a "beta cuck who settled down, had kids, and has to pay after everything instead of being an alpha male who can fuck all day everyday with a bunch of different women". We now even have today's group of young men who refuse to pay on dates or even DATE, period. They just want to link up and that's it.
So, why are they crying about this now? They hate women who want to be courted, who want to date them, who want relationships, who want marriage and a baby carriage. These men talked about wanting to soon replace women with sex robots to get with instead. Why are men crying about this now after all this time that they pretended that being with us made them want to die?
I'm pledging to spend my 30s single. At least.
I'm always told "don't block your options like this, you'll miss.out on something beautiful" by scrotes 🎻 Bruh, stfu and mind your own business. I don't have the patience to justify anything for you.
I quit in 2020, notwithstanding a brief stint on OLD (edit: OLD attempt was post-vaccination) during which no actual dates ever materialized (TONS of matches though) because men are huge lazy pieces of shit who can't have a normal conversation and organize ONE normal, safe date I'd be happy to go on
Can we extend this to a general strike where women realize OLD is a scam and leave en masse?
That's the best news I've ever heard recently.
I respect this! she doesn’t blame other women for a single second. 🥳🥳
I love how the men in the comments are proving the author's point by pitching a fit and mansplaining how women are wrong and overreacting. Men are willfully in denial about how horrible they are as a class.
This article is beautiful, it is art. The problem with men in systemic, despite how many different magazines are shouting at us it is not
I'm probably not a HVW yet. But I genuinely believe I'm wife material. I am a good person, I have interesting hobbies, I support myself, and I'm gorgeous. Tell me why so many men on the internet claim to want women like that, but when we go on dates with them, it's like they lied to get a free sex doll? None of them actually want wives. None of them want girlfriends. Men say that because it's uncouth to think women don't deserve autonomy.
That's why this article resonates with me. I've always wanted the white picket fence, children; I looked up my perfect wedding dress as a kid. But I am so close to finding a new dream, because I was the one putting the emotions, the care, the schedules in all of my relationships. Do you know how bad it is when my fucking MOM told me not to get married? I personally don't want children without a husband, so I suppose it's time to focus on other things on the bucket list.
>A switch clicks in their mind, and from that day on, they plan a life around being single.
so i haven't been the only one to do this hahaha
i've been here thinking "woah! i'm awesome! i flipped a switch in my brain and now i'm free!"
it's actually a very long process, kinda like a biuld up for something. then it finally happens: the insight that "flips the switch". feels like a fraction of a second.
>If a woman asks for a man to pay for a dinner, he might wax poetic about how she was “hustling him for money.” (Okay, so I guess y’all just want us to put out, shut up, and leave? Nothing for us? That sounds pretty unappealing.) Women risk getting abused, sexually assaulted, raped, or even killed by partners. If this happens, the woman will be blamed for “choosing the wrong guy.”
this is too real. if i ever go back to dating, i think i wouldn't care if they paid or not because i'd vet them for things i consider more important, since i don't want a provider (i don't want to get married/live under the same roof, and i provide for myself) and i don't want to take the risk of a violent man child who thinks i'm a gold digger. i think paying for dates is a sign of appreciation, something kind a man can do to show me he likes me. but even that is not enough when we take into account all the risks we take just to go see them. and then when i think a little bit more about that, i go back to the insight of being happier and safer as a solo woman. i can pay for my food, men have nothing to offer in terms of affection, men are dangerous, and as i already said: the risks are too high for the price of a date. be it a coffee date or a dinner at a five star restaurant. better not take the risk at all.
>women are totally within their right to choose to stay single out of fears for their own safety and mental health.
yessssss this is me right hereeeeeee! hello!
this article is perfect! i want to marry it hahah
I've been asking for a relationship strike for ages! I must be the only woman doing it 😂 dating sites provide zero protection and dating is far from fun so I've literally nothing to lose 🤣 I've other options to living a lifelong unhappy existence with a rubbish 'man'.
When I was dating I'd have a full profile and put effort into asking compatibility questions so not to waste my time energy going to 'nowhere dates' and they'd still put zero effort. Zero compatibility questions asked to me, zero info on their profile, literally voice messages coz men are too lazy to type or asking for a date in first opening line (psycho!!) and then loads of emotional and psychological abuse or my full profile was called fake when their entitled assez got rejected, which only shows me I dodged a physically abusive whiimp also. Really nothing I'm missing and my mental health is more positive when I don't interact with any man in life.