I saw this short come up on my YouTube feed and this woman claims that women will not "settle down" with an average guy because she is addicted to her current lifestyle 🙄. I'm sorry, but what???
Imagine being this much of a pick-me that you think that you have to put other women down to feel better about yourself.The average guy will drop most of the housekeeping/mental labor on your lap, even if you have your own damn job.Women are now contributing equally to finances, but we're still statistically by and large forced to be house servants to men. The second shift is way too damn real for her to think the "average guy" is worth settling for!
Not to mention, you have no choice but to need two incomes to support a household.
There's this other reel she does where she's basically, like when men initiate divorces it's because the woman starts trying to "run the house" because she makes more money.
It's like bitch, that house is her domain, she's the only one looking after the actual place and she knows it like the back of her hand ✋️.
Not to mention, your freely expecting her to contribute 50% or more with her income but getting offended that she thinks she can act like the head of the house too.
If you're offended that she won't do all the domestic work, childcare, and 50% of the bills and put on a this roleplay of being submissive to make you feel like you're in-charge, your a manbaby! You can bring the money in the world, and she will still feel like she's handling the fragile emotions of a manbaby.
Meanwhile you use weaponized incompetence, I hate my wife jokes and expect that anyone with two braincells would respect you!
The whole thing about women only finding 20% of men attractive. It's like this. Does this bitch mean physically or as a person. Maybe 20% of men are attractive enough that just seeing their face and nothing else makes you want to fuck them when your scrolling tinder. This 20% has very little overlap with 20% most wealthy men. The 80-20 rule actually refers to how the top 20% of richest men are women's first choice unless their personality is shitty and you have self respect. Very few of the wealthiest men are also in the 20% looks category. Men have the privilege of not being sexual objects, the reason you see hot women date ugly guys that aren't rich more often then you see hot guys date poor ugly girls is because they get to earn sexual attraction through personality, intelligence, being funny. Women can't do that, we're just objects and status symbols because men refuse to value us any other way.
This is why I truly struggle to see the point of men.
▪︎ You can't sexually objectify them (they don't wash their hands, they leave shit streaks on the bed, they're unkempt)
▪︎ you can't use them for sex because
their dicks are broken due to PIED, ED and death grip at alarmingly young ages
even if they weren't, they just can't compare to vibrators (they can't last as long as a vibrator's battery, they can't make you orgasm quickly or at all while a vibrator makes orgasm quickly and multiple times, they can't feel as good as a sex toys)
look up how often straight men, straight women, gay men, and lesbian women orgasm without the interference of vibrators, it's sad
The frequency of orgasms between wlw shows there's nothing wrong with women's ability to orgasm
They refuse to find the clit whether they are 12 or 52. Many of these manosphere podcasters are admitting they know where it is and they don't care because they're selfish. Another area to play dumb (weaponized incompetence)
▪︎ their companionship sucks
They think being friends with women without ever getting to sleep with them is a horrible punishment (friendzone)
They just use you for trauma dumping their emotional baggage without having the capacity to do it back for you like a female friend because they're emotionally dumb. Their eq is a negative number and they can't talk about their feelings with their guy friends, so you're their sole therapist because they refuse real therapy.
Your left to process your own trauma and emotions, as well as theirs without them ever fixing the problems they vent to you. Completely unconscious of the toll this takes on you because "woman live life on easy mode"
If you're a woman and you grew up in a house watching female pain behind closed doors, you'll know that you won't feel true loneliness until you enter a marriage and feel lonelier than you ever felt single. And the day you become divorced or a widow, you feel such relief because you actually feel less lonely.
Some scrote that distributes his time between work (hopefully), ignoring you for video games, and leaving you for his "bros" and "guys trips" while you basically raise the kids like a single mother alone all night.
The way your girlfriends are genuinely interested in what you talk about because they're find you interesting even if they don't care about the topic. They actually could stay up all night talking to you even after 10 years and laugh nonstop. A scrote couldn't think of doing this past the honeymoon stage.
▪︎ The economy forces most households to depend on two-incomes, they want you to love submitting to them
They only want you to be a housewife so they can be the only one that uses the phrase "do you know what it's like to work 8 hours and feel like crap after" as emotional blackmail.
I'm saying blackmail because if they really believed this was such a huge sacrifice that warranted so much gratitude, they would demonstrate that gratitude back to the woman that also works 8 hours instead of dumping weaponized incompetence on her.
They use zero critical thinking when they use try apply manosphere arguments to real life. Saying "do you know what it's like to work 10hrs and come home feeling like crap" to American women in comment sections who, let's be real, are more likely to have worked since age 15.
80% of American women have no choice but to work to make ends meet. Yet, they never feel stupid for speaking to modern women as if they're speaking to naive housewives through a time portal "be grateful for the man who worked all day, you lazy cows." "Practice your gratitude, you don't know what it's like to work".
They feel that it breaks their masculinity to demonstrate the same gratitude that they ask for in exchange for bringing home the bacon, when the family equally depends on you for that bacon. You don't deserve gratitude, appreciation, kind words after a crap day, a clean house, a warm meal, after you feel like crap to feed the family because you're a woman, after those 10 hrs you get on your knees to make your weak ego husband feel like a man for his job or else he'll abandon the family because there are more desperate, younger women who will give him that gratitude for a bag of beans.
I would rather raise a family with a bestie. Whether I had to stay home with the kids or work full time to get that second income. You know why? I need to express myself transparently. I need to be emotionally transparent. Whether I'm assertive one day and compliant the next, or I'm bitchy one day and sweet the next. I just need to be myself with the person who is truly interested in me, what I have to say, thinks I'm funny and looks forward to doing things with me. I only sense that from female bestfriends. Most guys would rather use their girlfriends for sex, to talk about their feelings and spend 90% of their time playing video games without her disturbing them. It's like what dave chapelle said idk.
I don't want to act professional for 8 or more hours and come home to roleplay like a bouncy, bubbly, submissive bangmaid to some guy that needs a woman to be pretend submissive or feel like nothing and seek his approval in order to live. All because his manhood is more of a fantasy that requires you to play along. When can I be just myself except with my family and friends, or in my own home?
▪︎ they think they're useful for "protection"
We don't live in the damn jungle. The only predators in this world for men and women are other men.
If men disappeared, there also wouldn't be any men to hurt us in the first place.
They protect us if "they" feel the situation has gone too far. If we feel it went too far, we need to shut up because they said it's okay for their scrote friends to hit on us.
Instead of their conditional protection where I have to act submissive instead of just being myself, I would rather live in a a gated community or a women only commune
▪︎ finally, you don't have to worry about him giving you an std because he can't keep it in his pants.
Eh, I'm not going to give her any clicks and views.
But if she means I'm addicted to a lifestyle of not being shackled to the average whiny man-baby who requires me to mother him - then yes, this is an addictive lifestyle indeed 😆
If men as a group improve their average, then we can re-evaluate. But right now the average is utter crap 🤣
The lives we give ourselves are lives we worked for and continue to work for. What a way to reduce our lives' work to something about men 🙄 Haha, I am indeed addicted to the lifestyle I've poured my energy into and will think extremely hard before letting in some loser of a guy who thinks he can and, worse, is entitled to change all that.
Omg this is the girl that TT keeps dragging because she kept talking about overweight women for some odd reason. 💀
To be frank, I feel really blessed to have gotten to know the FDS community in general because this world, especially when it comes to women issues, feel incredibly divided and polarized; you got women like the one in the video who are traditional-minded and highly misogynistic, but there are women who are very liberal and think sex work is work/hookup culture doesn't harm girls and women everyday who are... surprise, also highly misogynistic. I really detest these two extremes so much.
That ginger "lifestyle" bitch in the reels! I was just looking at her! I had to click "do not recommend channel", and guess what? They kept recommending her and the same freaking channel as I kept scrolling. Like what mra, manosphere weirdo is out there driving the YouTube algorithm by it's balls?I can see youtube getting sued for pushing propaganda similar to how mark Zuckerberg was in legal trouble with facebook a few years ago.The most recent change that stood out in the last year or so is, is women getting into the manosphere industry to make a quick buck. Maybe that ginger woman's lifestyle theory comes from anecdotal evidence, she's certainly selling and pimping herself out for a "lifestyle" and cheap validation by saying this stuff.
The algorithm likely factors in what other YouTube users like - so that in itself would push the manosphere stuff because the people who spend the most time online are men who don't have anything else going on in their lives. 🤣
I'm getting spectator sports content pushed at me on YouTube and I have never watched a single sports thing on YouTube. I keep selecting "not interested" on those but YouTube is not taking the hint. 😅
Pickmes go to such extreme lengths to drag down other women. Misery wants company. But you have to understand why pickmes think you can't have a lifestyle: you can't afford to have a lifestyle when you're playing mommy mcbangmaid to a scrote. You don't have the time or get yelled at if you do.
I have a lifestyle - something I really worked towards as I was leveling up. When I started practicing self love and self care and telling myself I deserve to have everything nice - I started to have a beautiful and more fulfilling life. I deserve to take care of myself, feel loved, treat myself, and I deserve to have a beautiful and clean home. I keep my car clean as well. It puts me in a better mood - I go on vacations and I cook for myself - and I refuse to give any of this up for any man. He needs to add value to my life.
Imagine being this much of a pick-me that you think that you have to put other women down to feel better about yourself. The average guy will drop most of the housekeeping/mental labor on your lap, even if you have your own damn job. Women are now contributing equally to finances, but we're still statistically by and large forced to be house servants to men. The second shift is way too damn real for her to think the "average guy" is worth settling for!
I luckily don't care.
Yes. I'm addicted to peace, and quiet, not being raped in my sleep, not being strangled. Of having total control over my time and money.
Eh, I'm not going to give her any clicks and views.
But if she means I'm addicted to a lifestyle of not being shackled to the average whiny man-baby who requires me to mother him - then yes, this is an addictive lifestyle indeed 😆
If men as a group improve their average, then we can re-evaluate. But right now the average is utter crap 🤣
Omg this is the girl that TT keeps dragging because she kept talking about overweight women for some odd reason. 💀
To be frank, I feel really blessed to have gotten to know the FDS community in general because this world, especially when it comes to women issues, feel incredibly divided and polarized; you got women like the one in the video who are traditional-minded and highly misogynistic, but there are women who are very liberal and think sex work is work/hookup culture doesn't harm girls and women everyday who are... surprise, also highly misogynistic. I really detest these two extremes so much.
That ginger "lifestyle" bitch in the reels! I was just looking at her! I had to click "do not recommend channel", and guess what? They kept recommending her and the same freaking channel as I kept scrolling. Like what mra, manosphere weirdo is out there driving the YouTube algorithm by it's balls? I can see youtube getting sued for pushing propaganda similar to how mark Zuckerberg was in legal trouble with facebook a few years ago. The most recent change that stood out in the last year or so is, is women getting into the manosphere industry to make a quick buck. Maybe that ginger woman's lifestyle theory comes from anecdotal evidence, she's certainly selling and pimping herself out for a "lifestyle" and cheap validation by saying this stuff.
This woman is clueless.
Oh no, honey. You’re thinking of “standards”. Not “addiction”.
Pickmes go to such extreme lengths to drag down other women. Misery wants company. But you have to understand why pickmes think you can't have a lifestyle: you can't afford to have a lifestyle when you're playing mommy mcbangmaid to a scrote. You don't have the time or get yelled at if you do.
I have a lifestyle - something I really worked towards as I was leveling up. When I started practicing self love and self care and telling myself I deserve to have everything nice - I started to have a beautiful and more fulfilling life. I deserve to take care of myself, feel loved, treat myself, and I deserve to have a beautiful and clean home. I keep my car clean as well. It puts me in a better mood - I go on vacations and I cook for myself - and I refuse to give any of this up for any man. He needs to add value to my life.