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Every day, week, month, year, and decade a woman exists, the more she knows. She learns about herself, her family, then school subjects, how the world works, eventually about the work world and she decides what she wants to do with her life - which will more than likely change as she ages.
To make this about dating and strategy, once again I posit that men becoming unglued about every woman simply aging normal is, as usual, about power and control, or how they find power and control slipping away as women become more knowledgeable and wise the older we get!
I would bet good money that most men, fathers or not, think (consciously or not) that a girl must be molded and shaped from the instant she's born. All independence, critical thinking, rebellion, stubbornness must be ferreted out - and just look how that fails!
I posit that men fear and despise all women 30 and over because we are capable, competent, taking on the world and kicking ass. And we really start becoming ourselves mid- to late 20s and on, thanks to brain maturity.
By the time a woman is 40 or older, we know ourselves very well. We know men's games and all the manipulation. We may want a man but we don't need a man and we are happy to walk if it's an uphill climb. Thoughts?
Completely agree! They go after young women to break them. If I had known then...
Men take advantage of young women's fear of poverty to rope them into deeply unsatisfying, uneven relationships and marriages. Then they're so traumatized and damaged by these experiences that they either swear off men forever or turn into pathetic pickmes who would settle for even the most meager crumbs of love and affection from a man. Or they find FDS and realize that men's biggest fear, and the driving motivator behind all of their attempts to hold us back, is that we stop needing them. The idea that a woman somewhere is happy and fulfilled without a man in her bed every night drives them insane, because they know, deep down, how little they actually contribute to our lives. We don't need their companionship but they certainly need ours. We don't need their "help" around the house, as we can easily outsource that to men (and women) who are skilled at their task and will do the job right the first time. It's a rare man who can sexually satisfy a woman, let alone one who is also a fun companion and a supportive partner. Most men don't measure up to this, which we women start to acutely understand by the time we hit 40.
So they can't stand to see us older and happy because it exposes the lie that we need them for survival. Not only don't we need them, but oftentimes we find that we don't even want them. Meanwhile, they're desperate for a woman, any woman, who is willing to tolerate their advances and act as a Mommy Bangmaid in their life. The difference becomes particularly stark as you get older and start to see the men your age creeping on younger and younger women because the mature women wouldn't touch them with a ten-foot pole.
exactly!! we become wiser and realize that men are trash and we don't need them. and they fucken hate it!
Just one minor thing because there's a lot of medical misinformation out there for women because nobody ever thinks of them: women's brains don't actually mature in their mid 20s (that's just men). They mature earlier, at around 21.
I assume the reason we start coming into our own in our late 20s/early 30s is because 1) we have our own actual jobs and have graduated uni and 2) have at least some dating experience and so stop idealizing men
The lies the media sells us about men hold us back so much. I wonder how much farther even women in their early 20s could go if they weren't raised on this insane brainwashing.