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They're not even hiding it. All you have to do is get their Instagram, look through their following list and BOOM. Several women are thirst traps (we're talking beyond a reaonabale doubt). Worse still, for some of these guys, it's HALF their following list.
I'm tired of our pornified culture. Tired of seeing red flags in every guy almost immediately.
Before men say it's unrealistic to not want a man to follow thirst traps, I don't follow any so my standards reflect my own behaviour.
Because the vast majority of men nowadays are incapable of feeling anything but dickfeelings. In that moment where they are honing in on the thirst trap, they feel a spark of life.
This is what happens when a pornified society doesn't expect men to uphold any basic standards of decency, or expect them to be anything other than masturbating apes.
I fucking hate when men do that. I won't make excuses for them and go 'ohhh but all men do it, they're visual creatures, it's biological'. Pfff really? It's biological to objectify womens' bodies? Don't make me laugh! It's exhausting to try to reason with men and pickmes who defend this behavior.
I refuse to accept it. I couldn't care less if most men see it as normal, what I care about is having a partner with morals🤷🏻♀️ I get the partner that I want or I stay single. I won't lower my standards.
"B-but men are visual creatures!" -- anyone else sick of hearing that, as though it's a valid excuse to be obsessed with smut?
Exactly, so many 🚩🚩! I hate meeting a new friend and discovering her husband’s IG following clearly shows his fetish for women who look nothing like the woman he promised to love and honor. Truly hate it out here.
My HVM friends rarely use IG, don’t follow anyone they don’t know (their followers are small plus who they follow back is also a small #). They don’t have this obsession with social media or porn. The most they talk about is global news, business, real estate market, stock market, etc. i can see how they don’t check out women while they are with their wives and even without them. Maybe a second of someone passing by but they don’t look again. I also notice how they mention that this already is full of horrible men and if they hear of rape/sexual assault stories or pedophiles, they are verbal about wishing those men the death penalty or their privates getting cut off, etc. They are the minority but they do exist.
Pornified culture is the key word here. Men instantly think of sex when seeing women and they don't see an issue with it. It also used to have an impact on me, where I also thought about sex anytime I saw an attractive man but this was more a way of "getting back at men" for doing it to us and the influence of everything being sexualized. First of all its not the same when women do it to men and when men do it to women. Second of all, its no way to live. I actually like seeing men and women as people. We seriously have a responsibility to teach our kids and each other how dangerous a highly sexual culture is. This mess is literally taking womens humanity away.
It's a really big deal when men follow women for sexual content, especially to the extend you describe and we should treat it as such.
It's such a good vetting strategy though. Guys that follow thirst traps are lv end of story.
Its just too damn easy to "consume" hot women instead of making an effort of actually securing one in real life, because that would mean they need to have something to offer. Most men get lazy at the slightest opportunity. Also, men are obsessed with the feeling of having access to multiple women, not just one. It's all just a fantasy in their heads, of course, and deep down they know how pathetic it is, so they turn their anger outward and become anti-social, entitled dickheads who whine and whine and whine that no sane woman out there wants to be their personal sex slave and maid.
because they think with their dicks.
I believe because it's so readily available and normalised. There are men that don't though (very few) I've can think of two, one was mentally abusive so no it doesn't make them HV & the other I'm with now.
They’re just so desperate. A few weeks ago, this random guy added me on Instagram and I checked his following list and his following list is 99% thirst traps. Idk why he added me when I literally have 0 pics on my account. I saw that he found me through my brother’s sister’s IG account but neither her or me added him back. It’s so pathetic when half of those women don’t even follow them back.
You said something so true: I am tired of seeing red flags in every guy almost immediately!