Why do so many LVMs Smell so Horrible?

The worst is the bad breath, when they go in for the kiss... its disgusting.

And those guys who has bad breath, bad body odor, is also the same guys that complain about a vagina is smelling 😂

I had to REMIND my lvx to brush his teeth more than once a day 🤢 who the hell needs reminding of basic hygiene?! Ugh...

Ugh. I take it as the red flag it is, buh bye. In my pick me days, I gave multiple guys the benefit of the doubt on their hygiene because "my standards were too high, that's just how guys are" (????) I also thought I "just had a sensitive nose." And that "no one's mouth tastes good when you kiss, you're over-sensitive," though I always took extensive measures to ensure my teeth were sparkling and my breath minty fresh. BUT NEVER MIND THAT, MY STANDARDS WERE TOO HIGH. HE DOESN'T KNOW BETTER. 🙄 Uh. No. What ended up happening was I compromised on a bare minimum standard (because of insecurity, low self esteem, thinking that being with someone, anyone, no matter how shitty, was preferred over being alone) and I was miserable trying to make it work with a stinky guy I wasn't attracted to because a) he fucking stunk and that isn't attractive and b) I'm further unattracted because I am now trying to politely get him to shower more and brush his teeth more often and clean his fucking toilet, like a fucking parent??? No. This is not part of it. That is not an adult relationship. This is not connection with a partner. Why is it my responsibility to tell a full-grown man to shower regularly? And this guy had short hair with 9-in-1 shampoo only, how long could it possibly take him to shower? But "he doesn't know, you need to cOmMuNiCAtE" 😡 I struggled with this for so long because i was insecure and honestly with someone i should never have given the time it day, I felt so bad and thought I was "controlling" when I just wanted my boyfriend to maintain his body so I wasn't disgusted and repulsed at the thought of physical intimacy with him. I also thought I was asexual for a while, but nope, just turns out I'm repulsed by body odor and gingivitis, so weird right??? I cringe at my past self and what she put up with in the name of "fairness and compassion". I want to tell her that there is NOTHING wrong with a bare minimum standard for a man to fucking shower regularly for God's sake. It's not even preference, it's like.... giving a shit about your body. Bare minimum. It shouldn't even have to be stated, but here we are. Guys who don't care for their bodies shouldn't date, but scrotes are gonna scrote. But like I said, a silver lining is that that's an easy red flag to nope out of right from the get-go. He shows up to a FIRST DATE smelling like shit, on a FIRST DATE, when you are to present your BEST self??? It is only downhill from there, BYE 👋 You are definitely not alone. That's good and bad news, unfortunately 😂

A LVM literally tried to kiss me knowing his breath was stanky ash

Unless the guy is homeless with no access to running water, there is absolutely no excuse for not showering and neglecting basic hygiene. They nasty!!!!!

In the wild, their strong aroma attracts the pickme like a magnet, the rusty nail.

Because they do not bathe or brush their teeth or wash their clothes properly or clean their shoes. Being poor has nothing to do with being low value so they cannot invoke lack of means. It's because they also have very little self awareness and do not care how they come across to people (low in agreeableness).

Because they think that washing their asses properly is effeminate 🙄

Queen shit: to leave a date the minute a guy walks in like this. I'd like to think I would now do this, as I used to sit and sweat out the date out of 'politeness', but have not yet tested this.

Also, I've had men show up to dates looking noticeably unwashed and messy or without even bothering to change to nicer clothes. I don't get close enough to them on a first date to get a whiff, but I do stop seeing them if they're this rude.

Partly I think it's their habit, and partly to challenge you, to see if you will tolerate it. I can't stand smelliness so I would leave.

In another gaming forum I used to frequent (I know I know), every couple of months, there was a thread/poll on how often to shower. The same question, over and over again, as if this was a deep philosophical question that required pondering every 3 months. This is the demo to whom "clean your room" is a Deep Thought (tm ).

Men are not pressured into self care like woman are, so some never learn to be that self conscious about their appearance, hygiene, body odour etc. They either are not health conscious and do not look after themselves or they think that hygiene is a feminine thing and emasculates them.

It’s actually so strange how many guys I’ve met that think taking care of yourself is “gay”. Like, basic hygiene correlates to your sexuality now? Come on……

LOL I dated a scrote for YEARS who refused to shower with any regularity and said "if people could smell him they were too close" and i would gently say, with the fear hed get mad LOL, "can you please go wash before touching me" HAHAHAHHA fuckin

Imagine me putting on my nicest £100 perfume for some scrote to turn up without so much as a shower 🤮

They smell bad because they don’t take care of themselves or care about what anyone else thinks! They would associate with LVM who would smell just as bad 🤢

j think if men can't even treat dates like they treat a job interview they are asking to be dropped because they won't pass me as an interview

Low value men are low effort men. Sometimes zero effort, especially when it comes to hygiene.

I haven't had a date show up with BO but I remember one guy who came at me with unkempt hair and wearing a faded, old hoodie (I later discovered that this hoodie was company branded swag 😂). I couldn't even recognize him at first and I legitimately thought I was being accosted by a homeless man. The date didn't improve from there and it was the last time I saw him.