I have seen on tiktok but also with some women in my life, they will deal with this somehow COMMON situation: they are in a relationship, and their man gets caught cheating on them. They break up but then the man is upset that the woman is seeing someone new and does everything he can to disrupt that, even if he doesn't necessarily want to commit to the woman. I know it's ultimately about control, but I was wondering if anyone has a longer or more in depth explanation as to why men react this way. Edited to add: the behavior can escalate as far as men literally stalking their exes because she's moved on, and this seems to happen across a variety of age ranges as well.
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Because men don't love. They only respect, control, dominate, and possess. If they loved, they'd want you to be happy. But most men can only be happy when a woman is unhappy. They feel like they have no control in their lives, and women are the easiest way to feel in control and dominant in their lives. They're not risking being in competition with other men where they might lose if they're not the dominant male. With women, they don't have to be stronger and better to be in control. Most men can easily physically dominate a woman. And they can mentally and emotionally dominate a young woman who doesn't know any better yet.
My guess is that to the man, any woman is a side piece and he wants as many of them without them knowing each other. And those kind of men tend to think the same "I don't want her but I don't want you to have her either".
Because she hasn’t blocked him haha
It’s about control. You never see this behavior from men who end a relationship on their own terms. So men will go all honey-moon-phase romantic on a girl to win them back, only to dump them shortly thereafter. They need to go out on their terms or they cant let it go.
Because some of them can. The system is set up to reward these men.