Where do I meet men with money?

Instead of asking where you can meet wealthy men, think about how you can become wealthy. It puts you in the power position and you have a better chance of attracting someone who is on your level and not looking for an "accessory" to his greatness.

Silvertail sports like tennis and rowing. Socialising with professional people. Even charity/art events and boards. Cultivate social circles based on genuine interests and hopefully you’ll be introduced to suitable men. Showing up to these places just to meet men gives off the wrong vibes imo. You need to show you have common goals/values in order to fit in with that world. Be polite and show appropriate interest in everyone because you never know who they may know.

Golf , polo clubs . Charity parties .

Sailing/yacht clubs, professional associations, charity events, golf/tennis clubs, equestrian events…just be advised that unless you are generally interested in whatever associated activity you’re engaged in, they will see right through it and the women will often try to gatekeep you out. Try to broaden your interests and hobbies so that you join such communities organically rather than with an agenda.

Try the upscale lounges at 4 or 5 star hotels. I moved back to a small midwest city from NYC and also lived in Miami for some time. The wealthiest ones will be in those places since in a lot of cities outside the majors on the coast the salaries are relatively low and in general you won't find a lot who make high salaries. These men are most likely just passing through but it's a chance they also might be moving there since with covid a lot of professionals are now remote and are moving to lower cost cities from the major coastal cities.