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👸🏾: Remember I’d written him off as a serious contender a couple years back?

👩🏾‍🦳 : I know. When I ran into him, I mentioned you, he was telling me how he thinks you’re awesome. Did you ever ask him out to drinks or something lowkey to catch up?

👸🏾: OOOP! Well…. I took your nudge to circle back and I asked him out to drinks in October. He Immediately replied YES but he didn’t return my call to firm up plans.🙄

👸🏿: Da Fuq?! Did you block him??

👸🏾: ATP I should have blocked him. But no! 🤣

👸🏾: I stayed PickMeing and asked him out again for drinks and to the Zoo thing in December. Smh … He texted right back and said he had to help his son study for finals.

👩🏾‍🦳 : Wait, what he has a son?? He never mentioned having a kid! How old?

👸🏾: 15/high school freshman. Yeah, I guess he recently got more custody. Anyway, I offered him and his son the extra holiday lights passes I had if he ever wanted to take him sometime before New Years, and he didn’t respond! 😵‍💫

👸🏿: Omg. No. Just no.

👸🏾: The crazy part though? He texted me on every major holiday from Halloween to New Year’s as he usually does every year, like as if I hadn’t asked him to any of the above! 😵‍💫 I give up! 🤣🤣 Blocked!

👸🏿: As you should. Because damn! That man is goofy af

👩🏾‍🦳 : It’s weird he never mentioned his son. Please know that I would have never recommended a single dad to you. Sorry. ☹️

👸🏿: Don’t ever let him circle the block again.

👸🏾: Nope!

👸🏾: Ok we should plan a fun Girls trip for Mardi Gras. It’s February 21 this year.

hush · Accepted Answer

A glimpse of my life with healthier girlfriends. An alternative kind of post in response to recent feedback about too many posts of male depravity Preddit & OLD screenshots, and trauma dumping with no trigger warning. ☮️

PyrophyteHeart · Answer

This is a breath of fresh air. Thank you 😊

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Did your friend set you up with the guy?

NoThanks989 · Answer

I love how you used emojis for this conversation! Cute and creative.

hush · Answer

👸🏾 met him randomly and they casually dated long distance (🚩) from Feb 2017 to Nov 2019, when she downgraded him to an occasional situationship (🚩) due to long distance. Then 👸🏾 coincidentally moved to 👩🏾‍🦳 and the guy’s city in the summer of 2020.

👩🏾‍🦳 and 👸🏾 randomly met and became friends in April 2021, and by the summer of 2021, new friends 👸🏿 and 🫅🏾were hanging out with them as well, as all 4 of these happily single/divorced queens got closer over time, and more intentional in how they supported and showed up for each other. 👑

In October 2022, 👸🏾 decided to start dating again and asked 👩🏾‍🦳 and 👸🏿 if they knew of any local HVM to introduce her to. 👩🏾‍🦳 recommended the guy 👸🏾 had already dated previously in 2017 and who she was still in an occasional situationship (🚩) with, but never talked about him to the friends, and had last seen and slept with him in December 2021.

👸🏾 was like oh I’ve been there, done that, but 👩🏾‍🦳 strongly encouraged 👸🏾 to circle back and ask him to something lowkey like drinks. Which 👸🏾 did beginning in October, and she realized that her occasional situationship guy (🚩) had downgraded it to a bimonthly+ textuationship (🚩🚩). 🫅🏾was like “nah, sis that’s one geriatric scrote, run!” 👸🏿 was like “get into a time machine go back to 2019 and block him.” Lol

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