Simply: I was in a class with a guy last semester and we were friendly. We talked about our class schedules and it didn't seem like we had anything together which I didn't mind. Well, he walks into my class today because he ran into some conflict and remembered I'm in this class. I'm pretty sure he is interested, but I'm not. I'm trying not to overthink it but sometimes I do. What's your advice for this ladies? What should I keep in mind to not be worried about this? What do I do to make this situation beneficial for me?
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I just finished watching a video on this exact subject. YouTube. The Gift of Fear, master class, protecting teenagers. (Also, just read the book too!) The author goes into detail on how we need to teach young women how to forcefully say NO, instead of being nice, the way society has taught us to be. The authors says it is small sacrifice to be seen as a cold, rude bitch, over being possibly seuxally assaulted. I would think it would be extremely weird for a dude to barge into my classroom for any reason. So he has some conflict he expects YOU to fix? Or is this a excuse to get close to you? Obviously, the latter. I would be extremely clear leaving no room for misinterpretation or room to negotiate your boundaries.
He hasn’t asked you out. Should that ever happen, say no and that your boyfriend attends a different school or something.
Seriously if you pay a guy any amount of miniscule attention, they think you must be into them. This post gives me creepy vibes tbh!
You brush up on your manners and keep everything as formal as possible between you two. Formality and manners are wonderful things- there's no better way to put a man in his place after a date, or him trying to pal around than to offer him a handshake 🤝 he'll get the message quickly. If he keeps pressing then it's bc he knows exactly what he's doing
Just be aloof and keep away from him, but if that triggers his "inner hunter," might I suggest telling him that you can see yourselves being married and having babies? 🤣 That always works pretty good. Tell him he's the greatest man alive and that you'd like to be married as a June bride.🤣
Ignore him whenever he appears and act uninterested. Avoid him when he tries to talk to you. If he persists and comes straight out with asking you out or saying that he likes you, just say no and say that you don't see him that way. Be strong and firm because your feelings and standards are valid! Men who don't respect them are pure scum. I had a similar problem recently and acting that way worked out for me! When he tried to contact me on social media later, I just instantly blocked him lol.
Ignore. Don’t interact don’t look at their direction. Just walk.