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I'm not talking about sex drive (because even the most limp dick guys are obsessed with sex) but more about actual prowess (ability to get it up hard & orgasm multiple times).
I don't like it when guys seem half-hard or when they orgasm once and then they are done for 24 hours, but I also don't want it to sound like I have some unrealistic expectations. so what are realistic expectations?
Is it normal for you that a guy can orgasm multiple times in a row (and not go half-hard inside of you on round 2)?
Personally, how many times a man can orgasm doesn’t interest me at all. What I care about is how many times he can make me orgasm, and whether he gives up after a short time, finishes himself off, then stops pleasuring me entirely because he’s done.
I only sleep with men who put my pleasure first - my current partner will always ensure that I come first, if he’s getting close he will stop and use his mouth, toys, etc on me until I have come at least once, then he’ll start up again so that we can finish together. If he finishes first, he always makes sure I get to finish too - he knows his job is not done until then. And, he is enthusiastic about it the whole time. I wouldn’t repeat the experience if he was unenthusiastic about my pleasure, or didn’t want to do the things that are most fun for me. He understands that well and is happy to make it a fun experience for me every time.
That is my standard for sex to happen at all, and I encourage you to make it your standard, too. Why would you want to repeat a sexual experience that you didn’t enjoy?