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A man you're dating, seeing, or in a committed relationship with gave you the ick. What was it that he did? And how did you proceed?
I thought this could be a fun post that also at the same time shares our personal standards/boundaries, so other ladies can get some ideas of what is acceptable and non acceptable.
Have a good rest of your day or evening.
Thinking he can talk badly about any woman. Gee sir, can I be the "c@#!" next?? No thanks.
Talking about his crypto investments
(I've never met one **NOT ONE** crypto bro that knew anything about the actual stock market or how it works)
Scrotes look at crypto like a lottery ticket destined for a big payout at the end of the rainbow.
Calling me a feminist in a joking way.
Not knowing the difference between their/there/they're, to/too, your/you're....
His idea of smelling good is spraying a whole bottle of perfume on himself.
When he wears shitty clothes.
One thing I'm proud of myself is even back when I was very desperate for a relationship, I get the ick instantly when I learned that he's in a relationship. I tried to get my ex back but when I saw him posted a photo with new bf, I quickly noped away.
Another one is something that I thought was classist but I started to accept this as my own standard. I don't like when a man can't speak English. It's not a language in my country so I used to think it was arrogant of me to want my partner to be able to speak it. But now I realize there's no reason to not learn English especially in this era when you can communicate with foreginers very easily through the net.
These are my icks please dont judge me theres no rational explanation for some of these 😊
Asks me on a date then proceeds to get me to plan the date.
Making eye contact for too long.
They like the show Family Guy
When they put their hand on their hip or thigh and bend their elbow and stay in that position. Especially when sitting down wtf.
Bending their neck horizontally when they use their phone.
Wearing odd socks because "lifes too short to wear even socks"
Converse shoes!! but at least the man is telling you hes immature for free
Never reading a book
Reacting badly to any sign of critcism or when someone points out they did something wrong
when they own a mug that has a cringe "manly" phrase on it like "Best boss" or "Daddy"
Wearing sweatpants in public, ESPECIALLY THE GREY ONES ew
Says slang words like "bruh" and "dude" past the age of 22 yrs old
Baggy clothes
Slouching and bad posture past adolescent age
emotional unavailability
Drinking monster energy drinks
Talking excessively about a video game, especially in a really passionate voice
Any form of being a hipster
Walks around with an untrained dog, owns a dog breed such as a pitbull
Walks with one hand clutching bag while the other hand swings back and forth, makes them look like elle woods from legally blonde.
doesnt know how to clean up or cook (or acts like they dont), fails at cooking at basic recipe.
Calls looking after their own kids on their own "Babysitting"
Wants their wife / woman to have lots of kids (3 or more) as if having a baby isnt one of the most dangerous thing a woman can go through nevermind the labour she has to do after.
Doesnt call their gf/wife beautiful or buy gifts now and then unprompted
I could go on and on but those are some recent icks ...
When he makes comments like "I'd let you dutch oven me, I wouldn't mind" and "you can call me anytime, you could even say hey bitch to me, anything for you"
They really thought they were flirty but it's pornsickness and depravity.
Men who mansplain stocks and crypto to you. A green flag is if he buys you stocks lol