Old pickmeisha would have said yes. New me saw the red flag. Why do you need your shirt off to video chat? New me sees this scrote wanted to try and soft push my boundaries.
Plus I want an idea of how he prides himself on his appearance behind closed doors. Not manufactured selfies
Too many scrotes complain we let ourselves go after a relationship while they parade around in an old 'lucky in HS' pit stained tee with holes and skidmarked tightly whities and expect us to fall to our knees and beg to blow them. Not anymore.
I would never do dirty things in front of a camera because you know... men might film it and use it against you.
Minor, minor point here, but I think it's valid: Is it almost winter where you are right now? If it's cold out and he's heating his home to the point that he's comfortable with his shirt off, then he's wasteful and bad with money.
This is why I don’t do video chats. I decided to add my extended family on Skype chat because a family member got married And I thought nothing of it.
One of their nephews asked for a video chat and wondered if it’s ok to show his penis. I blocked right away. If he comes with his side of the story and try to lie that I was the one who asked him well I have the chat history as proof and screenshot it for safekeeping. Always keep receipts because when you reject men they will try to make you look bad.
His (limited) use of the English language and lack of punctuation made my skin crawl.
From an outside objective perspective, reading this text conversation, he steam rolled your boundaries. You mentioned you have children and want the video chat clean. He immediately disregarded everything you said. This was not a soft push on your boundaries. I'm so happy it's an immediate block. Men of today are so depraved!
I agree, I like video chats partly because it shows me what these men are like at home. They're too lazy to dress up.
What is wrong with men😭!?!
Yeah his shirt is off and next thing you realise is his pants are off too and he didn’t even bother mentioning it to you. Oops!