Huge red flag if a man has not spent a significant amount of time single in his adult life! It means he would rather waste a woman’s time than be alone.
both the idea of settling for someone, or being settled for, sound horrible.
I think that’s why a lot of men I’ve met seem like they never got over certain exes if not all their exes. They don’t take time to process anything and just try to distract themselves with someone new.
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Sep 20, 2022
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i mean, otherwise how are they going to get the free sex and emotional labour? unacceptable
A lot of men seem incapable and scared of being alone. They would rather stay with a woman they don't love in a miserable marriage, then just be on their own, unless they manage to find another 'better' one, then they will leave the old for the new in a heartbeat. But if a woman leaves the husband to be by herself, because existing with him is pure misery, then he will cry to everyone what a victim he is, how his heartless wife just left him alone etc.
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Huge red flag if a man has not spent a significant amount of time single in his adult life! It means he would rather waste a woman’s time than be alone.
both the idea of settling for someone, or being settled for, sound horrible.
Yup, definitely true. I’ve filed for divorce twice. It’s never too late to get out, you only live once.
A lot of men seem incapable and scared of being alone. They would rather stay with a woman they don't love in a miserable marriage, then just be on their own, unless they manage to find another 'better' one, then they will leave the old for the new in a heartbeat. But if a woman leaves the husband to be by herself, because existing with him is pure misery, then he will cry to everyone what a victim he is, how his heartless wife just left him alone etc.
“If I have a hole in my shoes I still wear them to go pick out the new ones. I’m not going to the store barefoot!” -Man via meme circa 2021