Thoughts on guys who use Snapchat?

I’d leave El Hornio in the dust. There is zero good reason for guys to have snapchat. It just makes it easy to cheat

Guys who use snapchat are a red flag. Only teens, scrotes and LVM use snapchat. They use snapchat to cheat. You should definitely avoid this guy.

Snapchat is for teens or LVM with Peter Pan syndrome. My experience with them has also shown me that they use this in place of actual courtship skills and create false intimacy with unbroken streaks.

Any man who uses Snapchat is automatically LVM. This might sound harsh, but there is no good reason for him to have it.

As you said, you "honestly like men without much social media". I'm in the same boat. Too many Facebook and Instagram posts would put me off. Snapchat is crossing the line.

At first I thought he had some flabby nineties fringe/bangs on his otherwise shaved head.

Any man that adds horns/devil icon and such to his profile/avatar/messages is letting you know that he’s nAuGhTy, eDgY, non-confirming to societal expectations, and often it’s got sexual undertones too. In other words, he won’t display any minimum expected decency and will expect to have access to your time, body, attention and finance by demanding you open your door to a literal stranger (as he already has done, inviting himself to your house before you’ve even met him), and I can guarantee you that a “date” with him would be low effort, or he’d take you out and expect you to split the bill or even pay for him. Block and delete.

If a man has a snapchat it’s a red flag. 🚩 Same with reddit. 🚩 Ig, twitter, and facebook are yellow flags at best, but not all social media is built the same. Reddit and snapchat basically scream scrotey loser so it’s best to avoid.

Also, invited himself over? Girl. Block and delete that creep.

Grown men with snap chat is a red flag for me. They are mostly likely using it to cheat or for porn.

Snapchat makes it super easy to sext and cheat with the disappearing messages, pictures and videos. A lot of the guys I dated in the past used Snapchat and 100% of them used it for sexting. For me, him having a snapchat account whilst we're serious is practically the equivalent of him still using a dating app tbh.

Seems like it depends on which country you live in. I live in Northern Europe, and everybody here has Snapchat. For many it’s their primary use of communication. My mother, who is 60 has it, my dad, all of my friends. The only people I know who don’t have it, are over 70 years old. It’s not being used in a sleezy way. It’s more common to have Snapchat than instagram. I usually use it to chat with friends, with pictures, but most often without pictures.

If everybody using Snapchat was LV here, I would have to get into a nursing home to meet HV people. And I, myself, is also LV, since I use it a lot. But I suspect that I use it in a very different way than what other commenters are used to.

I can no longer deal with grown ass men.

I used to use snapchat as a primary means of communicating with a few people from a very specific area near me where there's very spotty cell service, so it was more reliable than sending a text. However, I am no longer friends with those people so I deleted the app. I did not delete my account though (just in case maybe I'll need it for the same reason someday idk). So it's possible he did the same and deleted the app but not the account, but the only way to really check (without asking him) would be to monitor his snap score. I think this can only be done if you are friends on snapchat though.

They also usually subscribe and pay for porn. There’s a subreddit dedicated to snap chat Thots and Tik Tok thoughts Ask my ex how I know 🤡🤡🤡