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But have you ever some across a very specific type of TFM -- aka The "Princess"?
The "Princess" wants attention -- MALE attention to be exact.
He wants ALL the MALE attention.
And he HATES that you exist, and that you get male attention naturally.
The "Princess" HATES you solely for the reason that you exist -- and his beloved bros ain't paying attention to him when you are around.
The "Princess" is like the male version of Pick-Me women -- but specifically on the subject of male attention.
The "Princess" is deeply mysogynistic -- they see women as nothing but a nuisance and look down on everything women do.
And if you happen excel more than him in certain thing? -- he will be the ONE to start the backstabbing and smear campaign against you.
Working, being in a relationship with, being related to, or even being anywhere near them means they will push and manipulate to take the spotlight away from you and relegate you to be the 'help' or doormat, while doing everything they can to get the spotlight and make sure every attention (ESPECIALLY male ones) are on them.
They are also notorious for stealing ideas and work from women and put their name on it.
And you would think they look like an effeminate gay men -- but most "Princesses" I personally know looks like your regular-ass man. Some even married with kids.
But that specific desire for male attention and male validation makes them a really, really, really terrible person to be around with if you are born a woman.
Because men are competitive by nature, while women are cooperative by nature (women become competitive because of external factors in life) -- and that means those "Princesses" are in 24/7 competition mode with women. Because for them, the only way they know of on how to "win" is by competiting and winning.
While women wins male attention by default. So "Princesses" hates us intensely for that.
Do you happen to know any "alpha men" jocks podcasts hosts, those weirdly aggresive male executives and professionals, the "bros before hoes" gang, or male politicians perhaps -- those are also the "Princess". They want, want, want male attention on them 24/7, and are perfectly happy to be surrounded by their army of men 24/7.
(Normal healthy men value their male friendship. But not that much)
Some already pointed out -- men are heterosexual but homoromantic -- and while I can't say anything about their sexual inclination, when you deal with these "Princesses" closely, you start to wonder if perhaps they are perfectly fine being homoromantic for the rest of their life. Or just very very very deep in that closet.
If you happen to deal with anything resembling The "Princess" right now, end it and walk away IMMEDIATELY.
When we say "most men hate women" -- these "Princesses" are at the TOP of that list.
They truly see women as nothing but the dirt under their shoes, and intensely hate us for winning the "competition" (that we aren't even aware we are in) that they have to painstakingly fight every single day.
Even if they approach you and love bomb you and seemingly good on paper -- WATCH how they interact with other men and WATCH how they are when men pay attention to them.
"Oh he is just a social butterfly" -- NOT TO THAT EXTENT SIS!! Not that intensely. Compare the energy he is in when he is surrounded by his male bros and collegues, and with you (and female strangers).
You will start to see it is very very different, and it is very very weird.
Sure, they may still show sexual attraction to you -- but you are just an outlet, nothing more. Being surrounded by men and getting all their attention is their truest desire.
And course, I don't need to explain to you about the married ones -- they HATE their wives and HATE the fact that those wives need attention and care. And HATE the fact that those wives still get male attention, and will try everything in their book to ruin their wives while gathering all the male attention for themselves.
They are f**king weird. Avoid them at all costs.
Stay safe, STAY WOMAN.
This is so true. Hollywood has done women such a disservice by promoting the "gay male best friend" stereotype. I had a princess coworker who befriended me, and I quickly began to see he was really after my now ex-husband. He would talk down to me in front of my ex, saying how my ex was so good-looking he belonged with Jennifer Aniston. He would also brag about all of the closet gay men who were secretly having affairs with him. He seemed to think of these men like trophies- affirmation that he could "steal" them from their female partners. I'm quite certain he was just using me to get to my ex.
We eventually had a falling out when I invited him to a get-together at my house. It was a small event, just close friends- but he had the audacity to bring over 3 (!) men he'd just met on a dating app without even asking me if it was okay. I did not appreciate him bringing strangers to my home and made them all leave. He took it personally, and I'm glad.
A princess tried to make me chase him and earn his approval! A princess will also try to make a woman give up something she loves in order to be with him. I saw two dancers struggle with their boyfriends making it difficult and wanting them to quit. Cutting women from their jobs support networks is all in a days work for the princess man.
Forgot to mention that these men might also compete among their friends with how badly they can treat a woman and still keep her.
Today I was told that I'll die alone because I don't want coffee or ice cream dates, And it came from a dude who is talking about his career and how he is going to make heaps of money for 10 years and then gives up because he gets no instant results, still live with his mother, has a kid he doesn't take care of.
Saying my value lowers but his becomes higher, I told him men increase in value with independence, success and wealth, you got neither.
I forgot to tell him that wealth increases the value of a woman as well, If Operah Winfrey said that she's single and men can send their resume to date her, half of the planet would contact her. While the least dusties can attact is female dusties and cheap hook ups, there is no woman standing in line to be a wife to a dusty. Even pickme's will wake up and leave them behind.
But there will be plenty of men standing in line to be a husband for a high value woman.
I will allow men to decide for me how low I should go.
How many women ended up in happy marriages or relationships with the 50/50 dudes? or Coffee date bro's? I'd love to see the statistics because I've seen a woman who is with a hvm he buys everything for her and she is glowing from head to toe, Another woman got disrespected by a black bandit and that video was already shared on here and her man defended her, And she with a diamond ring looks happy, good shape and glowing.
Compare that to the wives of the 50/50 manlets and the Coffee and bagel date morons. I've never seen a wife of a scrote be happy, " it's hard but it's all worth it" Is just a coping mechanism.
Why are these dudes not bleeding out in a trench somewhere?
Excellent analysis! I love this post so much!