Is this for real?? Do they all have learning disabilites? Did it really take until 2022 for them to start realizing if they hold anti-woman values women don’t want them?? At least this article tells them to go to therapy (PT articles are usually 50/50 chance of being trash), but I just kept thinking “yeah DUH” as I read it.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men
I absolutely agree, and coupled with the fact that women don’t need to marry them to have legal rights anymore means they can’t get a spouse simply by existing as a male, and they’re BIG MAD we aren’t just falling into their laps.
I think there have always been issues with misogyny, homiesexuals and general groups of women-hating men. However, the normalisation of porn has desensitised men further and it is now becoming more mainstream to see blatant disrespect and dehumanisation of women just about everywhere. The more porn they watch, the more depraved the content is that they consume. The more they normalise this, the more they normalise the warped ideas that come with it (and the less their pp is able to even function). They lose the ability to connect to women as people and they are no longer capable of being in a healthy relationship with anyone. The ability for incels and redpill creeps to collect in forums online gives these men an echo chamber for their misogyny and they encourage each other to get worse. They ree into the void and try to pass themselves off as victims. They created this mess for themselves through the patriarchy. Their audacity grows at the same rate as their women-hating. It's all very ugly.
I was talking to my ex (son's father, was visiting our son) yesterday about relationships and how I have no interest in one, I don't need sex to be happy, if I ever did get into one he would have to have x y and z for it to be worth it, and even then not sure I would bother. He said, all of the women at my work say the same thing, that they don't need a man, attitudes like yours are the reason why I can't find a girlfriend or get laid. He is so salty about it, it was glorious 😂 He said, this will lead to the extinction of the species. I replied hardly, you don't need a relationship to reproduce and I'm living proof of that as I'm currently pregnant via sperm donor and any future children I have will be conceived the same way. He tried to convince me that I need a man in case a snake came into the house. I've been living on my own with a child for 6 years I think I can handle anything that comes my way 😅. Then he tried to argue that I will end up alone in a nursing home. I said even if I had a husband, it is highly probable that he would die before me anyway and I would end up in the same situation. So yeah that's the best he could come up with as to why we should date men. He is so desperate to find a girlfriend and pretty much the only reasons he could list are sex and someone to do his laundry. He's also very resentful that he can't have children without a woman as easily as a woman can get a sperm donor. Men need us way more than we need them and their reasons are shallow!!
If they aren't taught then they won't know. Boys can be the "golden child" of families, and we all know that the golden one grows up worse off than the scapegoat. I don't blame a man for failing in his 20's. But later on they've had enough adulthood behind them to take responsibility for their part in a relationship.
I see the problem as being they don't know that they have anti-women values. The dominant culture is libfem, which as is regularly discussed on this site, is patriarchal apologist. Most people don't question the fundamentals of culture. Now THAT is a failing
I remember reading something similar and a woman commented that women have been saying that for ages but it only took a man to repeat it for anyone to pay attention.. damn if that doesn't show how misogynistic our world is than Idk
WoMeN wOuLD ratheR fuCk a DiLdO tHaN me. SO uNfaiR