Strip Clubs

The concept of a strip club is so unbelievable to me. It's so sexist and objectifying. Would definitely not date a guy who would go to one for fun. And I would never go to male strip

club; I have no desire to see a man in that context. I found out my brother went to strip club with friends and got a lap dance even though he has a gf of 4 years. I mean just watching is one thing but paying a naked woman to grind on you?? I lost respect for him. I'm debating if I should tell her.

I agree with you. I don’t care if it’s even a stag do. Go to normal clubs. He doesn’t need to be wasting money getting lap dances (especially as that money would be spent on a random woman instead of me),

A HVM will never go to a strip club. It’s sexually objectifying and very disgusting. It smells gross 🤮 I would never be ok with a man who goes there and I never step a foot in strip clubs.

Ya the women as animals in a zoo. your friend is only okay with it because she considers real live human women as subhuman. If she didn’t she would consider it cheating. plus agreeing with a man that he has some right or need for multiple women? What is the argument against having sex if someone feels a man needs to see other women to satisfy him? If one supports men objectifying women for sport it sends a message women Are below men and their bodies are for male use. So many women dehumanize porn stars and strippers it makes me sick. It makes me sick that men do it too, but you would think the sex that is portrayed as worthless and contemptible and pathetic in porn would be taking a stand against it. These are people and humanity needs to get back some boundaries for human dignity and expectations for men not to act like apes. I am infuriated that I have to live in a society full of men who are looking at women as worthless sex objects and will assault and harass without guilt. I’m angry 18 and 19 year old teenagers are sold for sex to men to strip and to produce porn.

I'm not sure if I consider it cheating exactly, but it's so fucking gross that "cheating" is irrelevant. If some guy wants to go out and treat a woman like a literal product to be bought and traded he can stay gone, and lose my number. Not to mention how unsanitary that is. Bro, you can keep your pink eye and staph to yourself.

even if he was okay with a male stripper grinding on you, he still told you that he enjoys objectifying women, which includes you, and i don't see why you shouldn't run from that. i know you're no longer with him so this isn't specifically towards you per se.

Gail dines son is the standard. Don't ever even go inside, turn back

He’s fine with a male strupper rubbing one on you? That man has no respect or value of you, a HVM would never want his woman to be degraded and disrespected like that. So glad he is an ex!

What you'll settle for is what you'll get. I won't settle for it- I'd rather be alone. And for a man to say it's okay, because he'd be okay with me going to male strip clubs? Sorry, but everyone knows those are for gay men. Women aren't wired that way. We do not get off on sweaty males gyrating in buttless chaps.

Whether or not one considers it cheating, I would find lapdances while you're in a relationship highly unacceptable. I don't want to be that girl who gives a guy rules that he has to follow, so I would just not date anyone who doesn't also find it unacceptable.

I wouldn't go as far as wanting someone unwilling to step foot in a strip club for any reason, but definitely not as a "fun" thing to do. Bachelor parties at strip clubs are super lame and I don't know anyone who would throw one. But maybe if, theoretically, one of his friends was throwing a strip club bachelor's party, and he didn't want to make a scene by refusing to go in with his friends, I'd probably be okay with that. This is theoretical though, because I don't know anyone who would do that for a bachelor's party.

Honestly, he wasn't even old (36). I wasn't that young, either. (27) But, he was definitely too old to pull that fake naive bullshit about spending time with other women, never mind the hypocrisy! Hypocrisy has no age. But, I do agree that old scrotes are horrifying. Boy, do I have stories! (In other posts, I've shared my experience about being rejected by a man in his 60s because I was too old for him! "Sorry, but I'm looking for college girls, " he said, totally unashamed and without a hint of self-recognized irony.)

If you don't like it, you don't like it. It does not matter what other people think and feel. This is a non negotiable for you, don't try to talk yourself out of it or let others talk you out of it by even asking their opinions. Some feel as you do, others don't. But, YOU are dating him, and YOU don't like it. Period.