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“You don’t owe anything to a man who has rejected you.
Rejection is a clear signal that he doesn’t see you in the same light, and it’s important to honor that without sacrificing your self-worth.
If you have feelings for someone who doesn’t reciprocate, stepping back is okay. Staying in a situation where your love or care isn’t reciprocal can drain your energy and make you question your value. Protect your heart by creating distance and focusing on your self-growth.
Friendships should come from mutual respect, not as a fallback when romantic feelings aren’t shared. If a man offers to remain friends after rejecting you, consider whether that dynamic truly supports your emotional well-being.
You’re not obligated to invest your time, energy, or care into someone who doesn’t see your worth.
His life, problems, or needs are not your responsibility. Prioritize your happiness and walk away from situations that don’t serve you.
By letting go of what isn’t meant for you, you open the door to relationships and people who truly appreciate and value you.
Stay grounded in your self-respect, and remember that the right person will never make you feel like you’re too much or not enough.
Be wise, trust yourself, and know your worth.”
#relationships #rejection #UnrequitedLove
I agree. I'd just like to add that even if you're the one who dumped him, you still don't owe the man friendship. When I was in my early 20s, I broke up with my then-boyfriend. He asked me if we could stay friends. I really didn't want to but I agreed just to be polite. For the entire "friendship", my ex-boyfriend constantly flirted with me and made constant innuendos. Every single time he did it, I shut it down and stated that I was only interested in friendship, nothing more. Every single time he agreed, only to start flirting again two seconds later. Eventually I got fed up and I blocked him.
If I had known then what I know now, I would never have agreed to be "friends" or alternatively, if I really felt pressured to agree, I'd have agreed and then blocked him afterwards. As FDS always says, men are not interested in platonic friendships with women, especially not women they've dated. There is no advantage to remaining friends with the ex. Despite what society tells us, it is not a marker of maturity and ending a relationship cleanly is a much healthier option.
No is no. Keep going, you're blocked.