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Every time I see a photo that a woman puts up in these Are We Dating the Same Guy groups, I think to myself "why are you stressed over a guy who looks like a human thumb?" It's too bad we're not allowed to comment on their looks because sometimes I just want to say, wtf? Him? Are you blind? Do you need your eyes checked?
I want to ask my married friends "WHY!?!?" too lol. That, and "How do you bring yourself to actually make babies with those... creatures?" THINK OF THE CHILDREN! Why would they want the kids to inherit those genes?
My friends might be not the most beautiful women on the planet, but they're at least 5 levels more attractive than the guy. And to nobody's surprise, the men are all LV. If they're going to end up with jerks anyway, they should have married a handsome one.
I understand many women fall for "give them a chance" bs, though.
Even extremely gorgeous female celebrities are married to uggos. I always feel like screaming "whyyyy"? But honestly, why?
I know - this is not the place to be critical of the woman's part in relationships but when I see women in the public arena with these pukey men, I get exasperated because it feeds into the narrative that women don't care about looks.
TBF to these women, society bombards women with messages like "You should give ugly guys a chance", "Don't be shallow" and "You need to lower your standards so you don't end up single" so I don't think it's fair to judge women for dating or being used by ugly men.
Or somebody with a face tattoo and expression like he's out to get punched 🤦♀️
😂 Laughing because I think this ALL THE TIME in these groups! I'd love to say something about it, but I don't want to hurt the poor woman who's already struggling.
Also, I think the "verified dating" FB groups that have sprung up alongside them are a bit sus. Women are supposed to post "good men," they know. But one woman's opinion does not a "good man" make. Many in these groups are pickmes.
I am pretty sure most women in relationships are not attracted to their partners and I find this so depressing.
Many frmale comedians will joke with this and be applauded by the women who obviously relate, but this is just so sad.
Most men don't put any effort into looking good or into seducing their partners by creating experiences and making them feel desired, etc.
And women just accept it.
It's like women don't even know they're supposed to find rheir male partner beautiful.
No wonder everyone then complains of death bedrooms (don't even get me started on how most women don't know how to orgasm)
Just sad.
I keep getting banned from those groups because I call almost every single guy ugly.
It's like, girl this guy looks like shit and probably cheating, move on.
Just a warning to you ladies, if you like to participate in these groups always use an alternate account that doesn't have any personal information.
There are facebook groups that have a title similar to ' are we dating the same guy Toronto- exposed' where they basically dox women who post their stories of abuse with these awful men .
In the book called "art of seduction" the author says that you do not have to be good looking to seduce someone, and many famous casa nova types are actually quite ugly 😅
Also women have different tastes in men, I've had friends say "this man is sexy" when to me he looks like a 12 yo boy or 50 yrs old with a weirdly boyish face (like that Calvin Klein guy whos ad blew up recently)