So you worry that no men on earth will come knocking at your door if you don't chase him first.
You worry that if you let the guy chases you -- he isn't what you want.
You worry that that handsome, rich, six-pack, charming blah blah blah man will get away if you don't "grab" him first.
You don't want to hear about "Levelling up" or "becoming HVW first", you just want want want that man -- but you have the conscience enough to not want to pursue him.
Okay fine.
The Dating Gurus call this "Freestyling"
Go watch SheraSeven on youtube.
Get dolled up, be all pretty and sh*t.
Watch your act, stay classy and indifferent.
Go to where the men you targeted are congregating -- golf club, car events, exclusive clubs, sporting events, art shows etc. (go do your research).
Or the places you know your target guy likes hanging out.
And just be there, be seen, be around, doing stuff, watching, observing, enjoying your time.
DO NOT play with your phone. Read a book instead.
Don't look at him but position yourself so that you know he will notice you.
When you "accidentally" catches him staring at you, smile, then turn back to what you are doing.
And let him come to you.
"But what if he doesn't come?"
Then hang around the places frequent enough, but space the visits to not make it too obvious, make yourself another frequent visitor -- and let association and familiarity do their magic.
"I did all that but he still won't come to me!"
Then you have to start realizing not every man you want, wants you.
Want more? Go watch SheraSeven.
Cheers.
I love this! Definitely will be doing this after I do my research!