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https://youtu.be/Nhb0VIdIrLk
Karine made a good video on some reasons why you shouldn’t get married and how single women live longer happier lives while married women’s lifespans are reduced on average by 20%!
Men‘s lives are improved when married because as most of you know, they use us for labor on all levels: domestic, mental, emotional, sexual. Even financial these days BLEH
she made an interesting comment on how the longest living person ever Jeanne Calment lived to be 122 years old in good health. A big contribution to that is her husband died young leaving her to be single for 55 mostly stress free years. She never married again and I don’t blame her for it. She lived her best life never getting a serious illness and she lived from 1875-1997.
so many studies now that show single, childfree women are among the happiest demographic. I myself can attest to this. I‘ve developed health problems with every low value man I’ve dated. One of my most abusive relationships, I got so sick and depleted that I couldn’t walk for several days. He gave me UTIs on top of it. All of it disappeared when I broke up with him.
During my most recent relationship, I already had a stomach disease but it got worse the more I was with him. I started having vivid night terrors usually about him that made me wake up screaming straight up. I broke up with him and my nightmares immediately ceased.
my stomach disease gastritis is healing and I haven’t even vomited on a daily basis not even once since the couple weeks I’ve left him.
Men just drain and stress us out so badly they deplete our life and health. I swear my mental and physical health are best when I am single and not giving a damn about participating in the archaic dating world.
Stress is the number one killer after all.
So when you are single and feeling lonely, remember that this is your time to do whatever you want. No one to hold you back especially not some musty scrote. You are free and have hard earned peace so why have any shame in your singleness?
People asking very elderly women what their secret is, and nearly all of them say something like "avoid men", or their husbands died young and they didn't remarry for like 40 years. Lmao.
I got endometriosis when I had to live with my father (I was basically his maid in exchange for living space) which isn’t hurting anymore since I got my own living space, then two STD with my ex (ofc cheating was a big part of it) one for a lifetime and the other one that puts you at risk of cancer. I am single now and cleared up both (though I might have to live with the possibility of another herpes outbreak my whole life) and the pain from endo is way less severe. Goshh FDS is really opening my eyes.
I used to pity one of my aunts because she never married (they told me she never dated again after a heartbreak that almost destroyed her) and now I think... what a life, lots of money, time for art, crafts, travel, reading... after my own heartbreak I feel I can't have a family, I have way too many interests and need for self expression to expend all my time taking care of others and all my energy worrying about them.
I thank God daily this is my life. Almost got married at 51 but couldn’t be totally at peace about it so called it off. A decision that’s only been reconfirmed as correct over and over.