.png)
How many times have you met a single man who seemed like a decent person, but very quickly the mask slipped? Every time I got to know a single guy, sometimes even cute ones, they turned out to be LVM.
When I was at uni, I met one or two guys that I thought were real catches and thought that I couldn’t get them because I’m autistic. YET, after 8ish years later, these guys are STILL SINGLE. One of them is tall, handsome, and travels abroad doing volunteer work. If you met him, you’d think he was a catch, but the fact that he hasn’t managed to have a partner? Sus.
From what I remember this guy was liked by everyone, including a lot of pretty women, but was a game addict who dropped out of uni in our 1st year. He also told me he was hung up on an ex back home. They did not get back together.
I also found out later from his housemate that he has severe OCD and control issues.
Even if we hypothetically said, hey maybe he’s gay, if he was good, surely he’d have a partner either way?
As for single women, I have met a couple that I consider to be good people who would make lovely partners. They genuinely can’t find good men to settle down with. Unlike the men who either aren’t bothered, or lie.
What are your stories for longtime single men VS single women?
HVM are rarely single, because let's be honest, men need women much more than women need men. And women are more likely to be HV due to societal expectations. Single women are single because they can be on their own easily and if they have standards they won't settle for LVM.
Single men are worthless. Single women are queens.
I know of one HVM that was single for about 5 years. He had a traumatic childhood, recognized that he was repeating abuse patterns in romantic relationships, and made the conscious decision to stay single while going through therapy and substance-abuse recovery. That's literally the only one I can think of.
I'm a no-value single woman. I know I'm garbage. Honestly I admit it. There's nothing attractive about me. I don't even know why I suddenly thought about trying to date again. I need to give up. My only hobby is getting drunk, which is what I'm going to do right now at 9am on a Monday.