We FDS women are on the right path.
https://hypebae.com/2022/10/tiktok-trend-stitch-dating-advice-cis-men
This reminds me of this quote:
"To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and love they desire... those are, overwhelmingly, other men. In their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honor is removal to the pedestal. From women they want devotion, service and sex. Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic: it is man-loving."
- Marilyn Frye, The Politics of Reality
💯 male friendships are very homoerotic in nature, with the constant pandering for validation and reverence.
This is why I always look if a guy has women in his life he admires. An author, a teacher he had, it could even be his mother. If there is no woman he has met/heard of in his life that he learned from or been impressed by, I next him. Its a really helpful red flag
Good, now go far, far away on that island over there and stop bothering women.
So very true. I've always said that loving women and loving to fuck women are not even remotely the same. The reverence of romantic love is the biggest gaslight of women society has ever perpetuated upon us. It keeps us foolish and focused on the things that will NOT benefit us.
I will happily date men. Dating can be fun, and there are men out there who know how to treat a woman. I only date if it is of benefit to ME. If not, then there is no point whatsoever. I'm not here to benefit a man at my own expense.
Let them go ahead! I can't wait until it backfires and they realise that no women want to date a 'married' man 😂 And I wonder how long the men in the 'marriage' will stay straight lol. Looks like a lonely, sad existence tbh.
This is something I can definitely get behind them doing, especially if it means creating a society in the future where girls and very young women would stop being pressured so much into getting married very early in their lives and to focus on other important things, such as school, friendships, wealth building, traveling, etc. I've heard of rare cases of two heterosexual women marrying each other to get tax breaks and to take care of each other's children in a house they can both happily own, especially if said women have been traumatized too much by men to want to try anymore.
Men are homosocial. They deeply love and respect their brothers more than they ever would with their own mothers, sisters, female friends, and especially to girlfriends and wives. They'd much rather spend a lot of time with their bros and homies than their girlfriends who look way too good to be with him anyway. Men act like they're suffering a horrible death when their wives want to spend an evening together when he could go fishing with his best male friend.
And so to all that, I say, I give a toast to them living their best lives together as two married men and leaving us women the hell alone. Cheers!
Edit: Also! I'm looking at that tiktok video and that man is making me laugh so much. The straight scrote literally said that he doesn't care if his husband doesn't want to clean the house they have together! "Whatever! I can get us a maid! It's fine!" LIKE! MEN HAVE ALL THAT MONEY ALL THIS TIME TO MAKE OUR LIVES EASIER THIS WHOLE TIME! But noooo, they wanted us to slave away at the chores and child rearing because we were born with the sin of being female. But if we had been born a male, instead? We'd have a gorgeous, huge home with a maid or butler to do all of the cooking and cleaning for the both of us.
I’ve noticed homoerotic overtones in male friendships before! Whereas between women, if it get deep, it’s sisterly in a good way.
and this explains some of men’s jealousy over the female partners’ friendships: since their own male relationships are homo, they seem to think we will be too, just because we are close to other women.
basically, men hate women and are also obsessed with sex.
We been knew but here it is. If only more pickmes could realize....
That’s alot of words for “I’m gay”
And the truth comes out!