And the benefits from the husband, Men who haven't put a ring on your finger in 11 years just want an eternal gf with wife duties attached. I never felt so disgusted with men.
I work in a hospital and it's so depressing. Wives are so loyal and devoted to their ailing husbands, but when the tables are turned the husbands are nowhere to be found. Recently there was one husband who seemed to really care about his wife. He took such an active role. But I soon learned he is an attorney and it looks like he's just trying to find any possible way to sue the hospital (when there has been NOTHING wrong with her care) so he can collect.
Truly depressing.
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My best friend's mom was married to her husband for about 30 years. She was diagnosed with a degenerative terminal illness and he left her halfway through and got a girlfriend. They were in their mid-60s when this happened. Disgusting. And bc they weren’t divorced when she died, he still got to reap the financial benefits from her death.
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"bbbbut.. I only wahmen benefit from divorce... Only wahmen are gawld diggurs! hurr hurr!"
I had a friend who's mother ended up in a wheel chair and her man left her behind and even tried to convince his children to leave her behind because she'll be nothing but a burden, now that she can walk again the scrote is trying to do everything he can to win her back.
My mom and dad have been married for like 40 years, something like that. My mom had a new injury she got when her scrote son (my brother) got into a physical fight with my dad and at the time- my mom does this weird thing she probably saw in her novelas where she throws herself into the midst of the fight to get the attention back to herself (typical of narcissists). She dislocated her shoulder in the process and never sought treatment for it. She's carried that injury for years and my dad never took her to the DR, has her drive him to and from his work-ride share locations. He's only done like 2 or 3 of his witchcraft spells he thinks works from his home country and says she's all "good now". My dad has had kidney stones and my mom drops EVERYTHING to take him to the ER, forces us to celebrate my dad on fathers day like he's some kind of savior to us.
Women suffer gravely at the hands of men.
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yet the pickme's berate us for having standards and only allow men that are useful.
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When I read posts from Breaking moms I'm even more fearful of allowing an undercover scrote in my life. The mom said that the husband went home because he was bored in the hospital while his wife and newborn son almost died during the delivery. Another scrote filmed his wife after coming home and berates her because she didn't have dinner for him while his children ate and the house is clean. I understand that the munchies makes you cranky but this is plain narcissism.
My Slovak grandfather expected my grandma to cook for him the day she got out out of the hospital after she had 2 massive heart attacks that destroyed 1/2 of her heart. She'd found out he was cheating on her again at age 50. He'd done it before when their 5 month old baby was suffering from a liver disease that killed him, and she had two toddlers to deal with at the time. This is the reality of men and how we women are subservient to them in their minds.
I think if you follow fds its less likely to have men like this in your life. I feel like these types of men you’re describing and the ones in breaking moms give lots of red flags. I dont want to blame the women in those situations, but they obviously ignore those signs. I think it’s brainwashing since we’re all basically told from a very young age to find a husband and husbands are given zero expectations on how to act. So we as women just have to deal with a man child.
but if I was married to a guy like is described like leaving the hospital while I’m giving birth because he’s bored, I’d be done with him immediately
you can’t think really know who’s gonna be shitty in the long run but we can vet for these things
Ughhhh this is so personally triggering because he talks exactly like my father, fuck. I bet half of the time he doesn't even ask for shit, just expects you to know exactly what he was and gets aggressive when you don't.
Do you think consumerism applies to relationships too? These are the kinds of men that will buy a new fridge when it breaks instead of fixing it. If the wife-appliance can't fix herself, she's gone, and he's playing golf.
Why the fuck is he out golfing while his wife had treatment?
he should be with her at the hospital or he can be at home doing things around the home and making his jalepeño poppers for himself since the jalapeño poppers are so god damn important to him
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if your man goes golfing while you are sick then you already know enough, kick him out. Small things predict the future.
My mom died of a heart attack at 66. My dad (worth millions) tried to put her in a fricking cardboard box (until I stepped in and insisted on a proper casket). They were married 42 years and still married when she died. Three months later he was pressuring me to meet his new girlfriend. Men move on fast. This is the rule rather than the exception. It is because they do not see women as people.
my step dad’s father is like this as well. He was married to his wife for 40 ish years and when she passed away he immediately got a new gf. At least she was age appropriate 🙄
My husband didn't want me after I broke my neck and jaw, and he was horrible about it. Telling me I'd never get well, that I was broken and going to be traded in for a new model, and that the doctors were just stealing my money. I had surgery on my neck 3 weeks ago, and on Halloween night, I was talking to my sister's neighbor who had a disc replaced in her C spine about a year ago. Her husband was berating her before the surgery for being in the ER on Easter Sunday getting Toradol instead of going to church with the family. This is the reality of men. They're only there for what you can do for them. Period.
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Men want wives, not marriage
I work in a hospital and it's so depressing. Wives are so loyal and devoted to their ailing husbands, but when the tables are turned the husbands are nowhere to be found. Recently there was one husband who seemed to really care about his wife. He took such an active role. But I soon learned he is an attorney and it looks like he's just trying to find any possible way to sue the hospital (when there has been NOTHING wrong with her care) so he can collect.
Truly depressing.
Fucking passive aggressive, pathetic old scrote. God you can hear his resentment in his voice. How can she stand to let him touch her.
My mom and dad have been married for like 40 years, something like that. My mom had a new injury she got when her scrote son (my brother) got into a physical fight with my dad and at the time- my mom does this weird thing she probably saw in her novelas where she throws herself into the midst of the fight to get the attention back to herself (typical of narcissists). She dislocated her shoulder in the process and never sought treatment for it. She's carried that injury for years and my dad never took her to the DR, has her drive him to and from his work-ride share locations. He's only done like 2 or 3 of his witchcraft spells he thinks works from his home country and says she's all "good now". My dad has had kidney stones and my mom drops EVERYTHING to take him to the ER, forces us to celebrate my dad on fathers day like he's some kind of savior to us.
Women suffer gravely at the hands of men.
When I read posts from Breaking moms I'm even more fearful of allowing an undercover scrote in my life. The mom said that the husband went home because he was bored in the hospital while his wife and newborn son almost died during the delivery. Another scrote filmed his wife after coming home and berates her because she didn't have dinner for him while his children ate and the house is clean. I understand that the munchies makes you cranky but this is plain narcissism.
Ughhhh this is so personally triggering because he talks exactly like my father, fuck. I bet half of the time he doesn't even ask for shit, just expects you to know exactly what he was and gets aggressive when you don't.
Do you think consumerism applies to relationships too? These are the kinds of men that will buy a new fridge when it breaks instead of fixing it. If the wife-appliance can't fix herself, she's gone, and he's playing golf.
Why the fuck is he out golfing while his wife had treatment?
he should be with her at the hospital or he can be at home doing things around the home and making his jalepeño poppers for himself since the jalapeño poppers are so god damn important to him
My mom died of a heart attack at 66. My dad (worth millions) tried to put her in a fricking cardboard box (until I stepped in and insisted on a proper casket). They were married 42 years and still married when she died. Three months later he was pressuring me to meet his new girlfriend. Men move on fast. This is the rule rather than the exception. It is because they do not see women as people.
My husband didn't want me after I broke my neck and jaw, and he was horrible about it. Telling me I'd never get well, that I was broken and going to be traded in for a new model, and that the doctors were just stealing my money. I had surgery on my neck 3 weeks ago, and on Halloween night, I was talking to my sister's neighbor who had a disc replaced in her C spine about a year ago. Her husband was berating her before the surgery for being in the ER on Easter Sunday getting Toradol instead of going to church with the family. This is the reality of men. They're only there for what you can do for them. Period.
Men don't marry for love, do they? They only marry just so they can get a free appliance to do all the housework for him, right?