I saw this tweet and I cannot believe an NYU professor is making excuses for undesirable ugly men basically becoming mass shooters.
If dating apps are so horrendous for ugly people in general, why do I not see women, especially women of color, going up and shooting people? Another quoted retweet said that if desirability politics was the reason for people to become mass shooters than you'd see a lot of Black women becoming them but you don't.
I'm quite sick and tired of men acting like they are owed sex and a relationship and if they do not get it, the onus falls on women to fuck them so they don't start killing people in masses.
And this guy is an NYU PROFESSOR 🤦🏽♀️
https://twitter.com/t0nit0ne/status/1595715482442928128?s=46&t=ik6EJCRP80lEVMzNr7qvdw
Society throwing women under the bus to maintain the social order. Nothing new there.
We’ve been oppressed, abused, used, rejected and treated like shit by men do you see women shooting up schools????
This shitty tweet may be blame-y toward women, but I don't see it in favor of men either, since it's literally implying that men are stupid, weak and emotional when horny & without a woman! This turd "professor" may tried to blame women but ended up digging his own grave by making men appear as the spoiled, desperate and pathetic gender...they need women so much that they would kill & mass shoot for a crumb of pussy. Nice job proving how men are the emotional desperate gender, scrote. All the more reason to prohibit men out of power & leadership and ban them from voting and accessing firearms. 😊 Remember how men propagated for the misogynistic lie that women are emotional especially when on their periods? 🤡 Thus they shouldn't be allowed to be in positions of power? 🤡 Well..turns out it's another projection by the male gender.
Except now and for at least several generations, women are simply leveling up. We are driving the bus, dodging if someone tries to throw us under it, settling only at first and then living, learning, and not settling.
It's really disheartening (but not surprising tbh) that the ~top 10% of men get all the attention waaah~ logic is even in professor's heads...
They always make it out to be women being too picky, materialistic, and shallow when it's men failing to meet even the basic standards. There are women who don't care if you make only $60k a year or are ugly/bald/potbellied, but you still have to be a decent person before anyone is going to fuck you. Why is this so hard for them to understand? lol
> NoT hAvInG sEx In ThE lAsT 12 mOnThS. Cry me a river!!!! Go join a religious community! I’m f**king 28 and a virgin and I was a kissless virgin until age 26! I still am freaked out about sex!!!! This is not uncommon at all among people who are or were raised religious!!!!! And we don’t end up shooting up places. My life without sex has been fulfilling and fine. I know guys who are over 30 and are kissless virgins and they don’t have violent tendencies either.
How can you be a professor and still haven’t figured out the difference in mate selection between women and men? I figured this out at West Point when I was 18 years old as I watched the guys go down to Ike Hall to go “hogging” which was them trying to f*ck the fat girls who were bused in from the surrounding universities. Men will literally f*ck anything—from women they hate, women that are fat, other men, animals, glory holes, apple pies, and the list goes on. So online dating like Grindr is perfect for them, because it’s what men want. But women only have ONS with the best looking men that she can pull. Why on earth would a woman take all of the risk of her reputation, diseases, pregnancy, and her emotional trauma for an ugly man? If no relationship is possible, why would a woman settle for an ugly man? It makes NO sense at all. At least if she gets pregnant by the attractive male, the child has a better chance of being attractive. That’s a bit of consolation whilst she’s forced to raise the child alone. How men haven’t figured out that the old fashioned ways of courting and marriage ensured even ugly males had sex and a family are beyond me, and now they want to bitch some more because they’re not equally able to get hook up sex? Unreal. Think about how a woman might feel sometimes and what drives her mate selection. When protection and provision aren’t on the table, why would she bother to settle for an ugly man? Where’s the upside to it? Women aren’t pleased by random sex partners like men are. But if we’re forced to live in hook up society, we pick the best looking men to hook up with. Duh.
They aren't owed sex from ANYONE. No one is owed sex. At all. If ugly women aren't owed sex, then neither are ugly men. Single or not. Don't see us single ugly ladies out murdering people in masses. Fuck off. Also this professor is just making the argument that men are weak, emotional, regressive, violent, and entitled. And they keep living up to that argument.
Psst: it's cause he's a guy.
Amia Srinivasan's a philosophy professor at Oxford who contends with this question and really looks into how desirability politics tends to embed racism by marginalizing black and brown women. She also looks into how they don't tend to use this fact as an excuse to shoot people up but also how people with predictable "preferences" for white and asian women should probably start seriously questioning their implicit racism.
Her take is far more interesting, nuanced, and less ham-fisted than this guy, which is probably why her credentials are so much better.
There is some sort of meh trans-inclusionary stuff (as if men pretending to be women and coopting their problems and spaces are remotely comparable to what women of colour go through) but she has to do that because of the pathetic political climate of academic philosophy.
People can reject others for any reason they want, and nobody deserves a relationship or sexual love. It’s an extra in life, not a right.
Here's an incident with a potential mass shooter in the making , hopefully the cops don't investigate and just let him go like the history of every other mass shooter.