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So many times I've been in arguments with men and their excuses take the form of what they were going to do or intending to do and it's quickly followed by what they say they will do...
I don't care! I'm judging you based on what you do! Why is that so difficult to understand?
I have no time to spend trying to read your mind and give you excuses for what you can't make a reality in the moment. Why do men think we'll settle for potential, potential that is so rarely realised? Don't settle! Don't expend precious time and energy trying to figure out useless men. It's their job to try to get their thoughts and emotions across, not yours to figure out or drag out from them.
Even more, if you get accustomed to the pattern that a particular man will definitely not do what he says he will (as I did with one shitty LVM ex), just dump him already. Being with a man who does what he says he will is so simple and bare-minimum, yet it’s divine when you’re used to it not being the case in past relationships.
It must make a scrote’s wiener hard to disappoint us cause they all share that pattern. Getting our hopes up for all kinds of things then let us down. Even the shittiest women I’ve known don’t seem to play that game nearly as often.
best to assume a man is lying about anything and everything he says, and then just observe his actions.
I needed to read this today. I can relate to this so much. Thank you.
A hard dick has no conscience. Males will say ANYTHING to get laid and have access to a woman, but they won't necessarily DO anything. Words must match actions, and even then, you still have to watch out for their tricks and lies.
As a union member, I learned this from interacting with management re: our demands. Management will make promises to placate, this or that will happen “soon”, but the bottom line is they prioritize doing what is important to them, when they believe something of value is at stake, and/or what they actually believe they can achieve at the level of resources they feel comfortable parting with. The words don’t actually mean much. Of course in this case the answer isn’t always to “leave”, the way you can exit a relationship, but I did learn that consequences in general are often the only way to achieve results, not endlessly complaining and explaining. I have applied all of these lessons to dating. Also I really like this article (apologies if there is a way to incorporate a link into text here as you can on Reddit, I haven’t figured it out) from the Art of Manliness. Masculine energy definitely has a better handle on conserving emotional bandwidth. https://www.artofmanliness.com/character/behavior/never-complain-never-explain/