Some women have the audacity to shame other women for expecting a man to pay for her dinner. One youtuber Melanie King is moaning that women want the privilege of the wife where a man pays for everything but still wants to work and take advantage of her rights in the modern world. Since when is working rights modern? Earning money should have been a woman’s right since birth.
When it comes to privileges what about all the men with the forever girlfriends? The Hospice wives who hardly have the privilege of a human yet she has only responsibilities and still seem as disposable when a younger female gives him attention. Free care givers while they don’t even have a ring on their finger. There is no such thing as 50/50 when it comes to carrying a woman’s burden. And there is no privilege of a wife when shes Told that her happiness don’t matter but her duty as a homemaker.
I bet all these 50/50 vanilla brand of the red pill goons wished they could turn back the clock, they paid for their own food flaunting around that they are cool and they faced the harsh reality that being this way won’t make a man stay. I used to know a so called cool girl and after giving birth to her second son The man left because he met a new fling. He lived in her house for free 3 years long and off he went. She worked, She wanted 50/50 and look where that got you. Alone.
All the women who delivered their baby alone because men were bored and went home to eat Pizza, and the women who are doing everything alone because the baby daddy decided to work overseas wished they didn’t scoffed at the FDS lifestyle.
Expecting a man to pay for dinner is not a wives privilege but basic courtesy. You don’t waste someones time just because you want to hang out. You can “hang out” over the phone. If I meet up with a dude and expects me to pay for my I own I will do so but I will take the food home Like I always do when I’m by myself.
How can I expect a man to provide for a family when he whines about paying for dinner?
Morons love to say how sex work was the worlds oldest profession yet claim that women working is a modern thing. Pick a plotline!
Glad I don't know who Melanie King is. These YouTube who preach to $ell masculine vs. feminine life coach videos/seminars/books to everyone need to be boycotted. How many of these folks live what they sell??
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Oof, this. It's hard to draw the line somewhere when the topic of biological sex reality and gender roles come into play because it can really muddy things up for everyone involved. But as much as gender roles can be discussed and even condemned in certain situations, there's still things about men and women that will always remain the same and remain true. We are different. We differ. We go through things as women that men never could, and vice versa.
Men desire submissive and feminine women yet demand her to be a 50/50 masculina. You cannot have it both ways. I read somewhere that when roles are undefined or trying to put on both hats at once, couples tend to not find each other stimulating or sexually attractive. Or worse, when a man is feminine minded yet wants a feminine partner; they won't find each other attractive at all.. if anything, they'll be clawing each others' eyes out in no time. That's not a gender role thing but a biological reality, I think. The same with two masculine types trying to get together. The power play and struggle naturally springs out.
The things I can go 50/50 on is sharing the chores, decision making when I can absolutely hear him out and his inputs on things, childcare, and the mortgage of our dream home. Or if it's something we truly desire as a couple but obviously it can't be afforded on his income alone, whatever that may be, and it also benefits me greatly, then sure. I can go 50/50. But that's if we are married. Fuck off with this bf/gf sharing a house without a ring shit.