It’s not even worth asking a man if he watches p0rn because a lot of them are going to lie to you from my experience. I wait until a man says his thoughts about p0rn to me. It’s hella creepy that he found her socials after she blocked him
You gotta ask what kind of porn he watches. By phrasing it in this way you've implied permission to be watching porn and he won't think he's going to get judged
This. I Iike to ask as nonchalantly as possible "So what genre of porn do you prefer?" which implies that I'm both okay with it and eager to please, and oh boy do their eyes light up and they just lean in, much like the fug in the original post. Meanwhile their answer lets me know just how depraved they are and how hard I need to yeet them.
Exactly!! Overall this story is hilarious, but never explain to a man what he did wrong, or else he will hide it and make it more difficult for the next woman to see through him!
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What’s awesome is she’s only 21. There’s hope, y’all.
I can't quite believe the amount of guys who are salty about her blocking him "without explaining" a.k.a without giving him the chance to backtrack and forcefully continue the interaction despite her initial discomfort.
Reminds me of some online guy "friend" who once "taught me" (when I was young and vulnerable, think 16-17) that "every message deserves an answer". Sounded so fair and poetic to young pickmeisha me.
Can you guess it? He was the kind of guy to reach out again and again, never willing to let conversations die out, and when I couldn't be reached on the usual platform, would send emails, text my number and so on. He did that for years, the most recent attempt was a decade after we met and about 4-5 years after our last contact. He would not get the hint despite me deleting accounts without warning and so on. He was a professional at not doing anything outwardly wrong. I kept doubting that gut feeling telling me I wanted him gone from my life, all because he had never "actually done anything to deserve me breaking up with him as a friend". Yep, he's blocked now.
You can pick up on sooo much by the simple values they hold. No wonder a "fuck yeah" answer to the porn question would send her running for the damn hills.
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My ex said he didn’t believe in ghosting. I’m calling ghost busters
This is how a malignant narcissist wasted my 20s. I met him in college and I wasn't allowed to just ignore and block his rude, delusional, aggressive attacks. I had to eXpLaIn mYsElF. Everything was an argument.
He literally argued me into staying in this ridiculous frenemy hostage situation for TEN YEARS!!!
Finally I wised up, ghosted him, and blocked him everywhere.
He freaked out and stalked me for a year, claiming to be worried about me - because that's a totally normal reaction to being ignored by an acquaintance you treated like shit and haven't even seen in 5 years.
Well, by definition, any man who watches pornography regularly IS creepy. Not so long ago, we used to call men who liked watching people having sex or taking their clothes off "peeping toms" and made fun of them accordingly...
So I’m not on dating apps but I want to get on them to match with guys, ask the question, and block when they say yes. We gotta get the word out ladies. When I first meet guys I always tell them I won’t date you if u watch porn. A lot of guys respond in a way that’s like, …yeah they knew what they were doing probably wasn’t good for them or society but genuinely surprised to hear an IRL girl say it out loud and demand it. Never had a poor response. I have had plenty of guys who decide I’m stupid and go wank their lives away anyways. Darwinism at its finest.
The lack of empathy that men have for women is unparalleled. How would he like to be the one getting railed on camera? How would he like to be the one with a bleeding anus and mouth like these women (and men) have after filing pornos? They sincerely believe their dicks matter the most of anything on earth. Watching sex slaves get railed is supporting the industry that hurts so many young women and men. But they can't for one minute put themselves into someone else's place. Good thing she blocked him. He can stick to his hand.
Reminds me of the post I wrote a week or 2 ago on here about the script I used and shared it on some places on reddit as well. Can we add an infographic of these questions and answers somewhere? :D
I don't know this young lady, but I for sure feel a sense of sisterhoodish pride for someone so young standing up for herself.
I remember when I exited a relationship almost 20 years ago nothing was even known about the dangers of porn, the addiction, highspeed internet wasn't even available back then, I just innately knew I didn't like it when my partners consumed it.
You couldn't even google it since Google didn't even exist and it never crossed my mind. Had the info been out there, it could have helped me make so much more sense of the situation. Luckily tho I've read some feminist books in my early teens so adding to my innate sense of morals they've helped me adjust my stances.
I had found the file name of some sick bestiality porn on one's ex's computer, lucky me file image previews weren't a thing back then, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to get that image out of my mind. I was immediately disgusted, shocked and my instincts kicked in to get tf out, I gathered my stuff (didn't live there full time) and made a quiet exit while he was busy on another floor of the house, I don't even remember the excuse I made up why I had to leave so fast.
Never have I screamed so much in my entire life, but I screamed the shock out in my car, it just didn't make sense back then but obviously it does now after I know all the infos and having dated another PA a while ago and me doing my research.
I lawyered up and went NC and got a restraining order back then. Still a pity how no one had told me anything about such things at that age and I had to spend a huge ton of money for a restraining order just in case because back then I couldn't gauge how dangerous someone like that could be or if they're connected to some ring or something. Now I know the restraining order was maybe a bit over the top since changing numbers would have done the trick as well but looking back now it did come across as quite a power move to protect my boundaries.
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It’s my utopia that all women would do this
I love this! normalize shaming men for watching porn!
Love that it never entered his mind that his vocal enthusiasm for jerking off got him blocked. These creatures...
It’s not even worth asking a man if he watches p0rn because a lot of them are going to lie to you from my experience. I wait until a man says his thoughts about p0rn to me. It’s hella creepy that he found her socials after she blocked him
What a queen!
I wish I was bold like that at 21!
I wish she hadn't explained to him why she blocked his ass "I now know to be weary of my answers" Now the next sucker will be lied to/gaslit
What’s awesome is she’s only 21. There’s hope, y’all.
I can't quite believe the amount of guys who are salty about her blocking him "without explaining" a.k.a without giving him the chance to backtrack and forcefully continue the interaction despite her initial discomfort.
Reminds me of some online guy "friend" who once "taught me" (when I was young and vulnerable, think 16-17) that "every message deserves an answer". Sounded so fair and poetic to young pickmeisha me.
Can you guess it? He was the kind of guy to reach out again and again, never willing to let conversations die out, and when I couldn't be reached on the usual platform, would send emails, text my number and so on. He did that for years, the most recent attempt was a decade after we met and about 4-5 years after our last contact. He would not get the hint despite me deleting accounts without warning and so on. He was a professional at not doing anything outwardly wrong. I kept doubting that gut feeling telling me I wanted him gone from my life, all because he had never "actually done anything to deserve me breaking up with him as a friend". Yep, he's blocked now.
You can pick up on sooo much by the simple values they hold. No wonder a "fuck yeah" answer to the porn question would send her running for the damn hills.
Men who watch porn are routinely terrible in bed. The coomer energy is so clearly reflected in his post. lol, QUEEN SHIT.
"Just to clarify, I'm not a creep."
Well, by definition, any man who watches pornography regularly IS creepy. Not so long ago, we used to call men who liked watching people having sex or taking their clothes off "peeping toms" and made fun of them accordingly...
its so good to see young women not taking shit from men, me at 21 probably would have dated this man for 6 months 😂
So I’m not on dating apps but I want to get on them to match with guys, ask the question, and block when they say yes. We gotta get the word out ladies. When I first meet guys I always tell them I won’t date you if u watch porn. A lot of guys respond in a way that’s like, …yeah they knew what they were doing probably wasn’t good for them or society but genuinely surprised to hear an IRL girl say it out loud and demand it. Never had a poor response. I have had plenty of guys who decide I’m stupid and go wank their lives away anyways. Darwinism at its finest.
The lack of empathy that men have for women is unparalleled. How would he like to be the one getting railed on camera? How would he like to be the one with a bleeding anus and mouth like these women (and men) have after filing pornos? They sincerely believe their dicks matter the most of anything on earth. Watching sex slaves get railed is supporting the industry that hurts so many young women and men. But they can't for one minute put themselves into someone else's place. Good thing she blocked him. He can stick to his hand.
Women are now slutshaming the men who watch porn?
The fact that he contacted her on IG after she already blocked him on the dating app….
Reminds me of the post I wrote a week or 2 ago on here about the script I used and shared it on some places on reddit as well. Can we add an infographic of these questions and answers somewhere? :D
I don't know this young lady, but I for sure feel a sense of sisterhoodish pride for someone so young standing up for herself.
I remember when I exited a relationship almost 20 years ago nothing was even known about the dangers of porn, the addiction, highspeed internet wasn't even available back then, I just innately knew I didn't like it when my partners consumed it.
You couldn't even google it since Google didn't even exist and it never crossed my mind. Had the info been out there, it could have helped me make so much more sense of the situation. Luckily tho I've read some feminist books in my early teens so adding to my innate sense of morals they've helped me adjust my stances.
I had found the file name of some sick bestiality porn on one's ex's computer, lucky me file image previews weren't a thing back then, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to get that image out of my mind. I was immediately disgusted, shocked and my instincts kicked in to get tf out, I gathered my stuff (didn't live there full time) and made a quiet exit while he was busy on another floor of the house, I don't even remember the excuse I made up why I had to leave so fast.
Never have I screamed so much in my entire life, but I screamed the shock out in my car, it just didn't make sense back then but obviously it does now after I know all the infos and having dated another PA a while ago and me doing my research.
I lawyered up and went NC and got a restraining order back then. Still a pity how no one had told me anything about such things at that age and I had to spend a huge ton of money for a restraining order just in case because back then I couldn't gauge how dangerous someone like that could be or if they're connected to some ring or something. Now I know the restraining order was maybe a bit over the top since changing numbers would have done the trick as well but looking back now it did come across as quite a power move to protect my boundaries.
In the post, his comment about him giving up porn for her bc she’s gorgeous is so icky