Psychologist receives hate mail for men are lonely and single article

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American psychologist Dr Greg Matos penned a piece titled 'The Rise of Lonely, Single Men' for Psychology Today , in which he argued 'men need to address their [relationship] skills deficits'.

And he's framing it as the old and tired "communication" excuse.

Men just don't know how to communicate, teehee!

Its a bold faced lie and I'm tired of it. Does he have a job? Congratulations, he does not have "communication issues". Weird how men understand boundaries and respect when it comes to their paycheck.

Men have a values issue. Their values are fucked up. They value control abuse and misogyny. Porn and vidjagames. Do they neg their bosses? Play weird mind games with their employer? Do they insult threaten and intimidate their source of income? Fuck no lol.

They are overly comfortable expressing their emotions because of the coddling they receive starting at home in adolescence, continuing throughout their entire school years, and then it continues when they begin to work.

As Lundy Bancroft says in his book. Men abuse women just because they can. It's that simple. Its not because of their fucking emotions, if it were, they wouldn't strictly abuse women.

If they had communication issues, they would have employment issues. If they had emotion issues, again it would seep into their career. It almost never does, because they know what they're doing. Abusers LOVE talking about their emotions. It puts the focus on their feelings and excuses, rather than their violent actions and their victims.

Its getting old. Genuinely this excuse is ancient. Its mythology at this point.

I predict this psychologist will blame autism for mens behavior. Because naming the problem is just too scawy uWu.

Framing it as a cOmMuNiCaTiOn issue just encourages men to manipulate harder. Their values are wrong. Say it with your chest Dr Greg Matos.